Very inspiring work brother!
Keep pushing! The journey to become our greatest selves continues!
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This video helps. Thanks. This seems true for me these days. Especially that I got betrayed by my work people and friends recently. I do not need friends anymore. I will just be casual with people to satisfy my need for human connection. But I cannot trust anyone deeper. Only myself.
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Which is app to track hourly activity
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Inspiring stuff bro @Tagore hope you are doing well. We’re all capable of conquering this. Lets become our best selves.
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I really do hope he is okay
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Where’s Tagore? Does someone have some news?
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He just taken some time off from the rc app…He will comeback soon brothers…work related break…and also to reduce phone usage
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He is the king. Tagore is the real king.
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Thank you for the information brother!
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Thanks for all the support and help guys.
This means a lot.
My goal was to break my old streak of 112 days and come back to the forum as a winner in December. I was half way through it, I reached 75 days.
I was productive,. focused and was also working on my goals.
But stress got build up in the last few weeks due to university assignments and I started watching p-subs in YouTube.
This one single act is the shit that always pulled me down!
Long story short I relapsed 5 times yesterday and am feelint like the weakest piece of shit in the world right now!
Iam someone who dreams big, i have big goals, from the age of 8 I started writing stories and I was like a comet going for the stars. I was a hero in my school but now look at my condition.
Not able to face people, no self esteem, low creativity, brain baked.
But enough with the whining, whatever it takes Iam going to get over this shit!
I can do this!
Together we can achieve anything.
Today onwards I’ll be posting in my dairy daily. Daily routine and Discipline is key.
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Enough with the failures. 5 relapses won’t kill me.
This is the new beginning.
Why!! Why!! Why the fuck do I go back to the filth again and again!
But this is it.
This time by being extremely Disciplined and by converting my entire focus into my goals I’ll make it!
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Listen dont worry. We will update our diary daily.
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We are together brother!
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I missed you bro nice to see that your doing ok I also haven’t posted or used this app for the last 3 weeks. And alot has happened, I bet that applies to you 2.
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Buddy there is this guy who recommended me TheEasyWay method.
The whole book is just a silly rant and I wasted time listening to the entire audiobook.
But I just got to one conclusion.
We go to PMO again and again because we think that we want it.
We do not.
But our body has fooled us into believing it needs it. Or we have fooled it to make us believe us by doing it again and again.
The truth is PMO is useless and our body does not crave it.
What we crave is real human sex, human connection, company of friends and family, a meaningful purpose, passion and hobbies. That’s right. We crave LIVING.
I did not feel any urge the last few days when I was going out and socializing with friends and travelling.
However I am back at home and I feel the urge again.
But this urge is to go out in the world and do something ! Not to jack off. You have to brainwash yourself into totally believing that you do not really need it.
Easier said than done. That’s why I am affirming every single day that I am free from this shit and do not need it.
Another thing @Tagore ! There is something common between me, you and a lot of other nofappers here. We are HUSTLERS and we dream big.
And WE EXPECT TOO MUCH OF OURSELVES.
I am certainly guilty of that.
THE GOAL IS TO LET GO AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE SO MUCH THAT PMO WOULD APPEAR USELESS. You would wonder why you consumed it in the first place.
THAT’s RIGHT. WE DO NOT NEED IT.
BUT.
BUT.
BUT.
Only if you are living LIFE.
That means stop putting so much pressure on yourself.
SET BIG GOALS YES, BUT FOCUS MORE ON HOW CAN I ENJOY THIS MOMENT MORE ?
When hustling, we might achieve a lot but our journeys will be miserable.
Best is LEARN TO ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF THE HUSTLE SUCH THAT THE HUSTLE BECOMES YOUR LIFE AND YOU DO NOT NEED TO ESCAPE IT.
Another keyword for you guys. ESCAPISM.
That’s right. PMO is ESCAPISM.
Fill your day with stuff you LOVE to do.
You must LOVE YOUR LIFE so MUCH THAT THE THOUGHT OF PMO would APPEAR TOO LOW, TOO SHITTY, FULL OF FILTH. WHICH IT ACTUALLY IS.
PORN , MASTURBATION AND ORGASM
All three are DIRT.
Shitty dirt. Yes, even orgasming without ejaculation is dirt. Reason being it creates the craving. Do it when you have your partner.
USE YOUR HANDS FOR WORK and NOT FOR FUCKING YOURSELF.
I know I am saying these things as I have achieved a lot on NOFAP even though I am just a beginner. And have failed multiple times.
But remember @Tagore You are capable of Greatness. And theae 5 relapses are a sign that you need to change your approach.
Change your mindset. from HUSTLING TO ACHIEVE GREATNESS.
TO LOVING THE THINGS that would bring you GREATNESS.
GREATNESS will more likely come when you LOVE YOUR LIFE.
Easier said than done. I am trying myself. But for hustlers this message needed to be said.
This is The Brahmachari Visionary.
I DO NOT FAP. PERIOD.
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Never surrender bro, you can do it!
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@Tagore, first of all it’s nice to hear from you after a long time, even though I would prefer to talk to you in better circumstances.
I won’t tell you to be disciplined. Yes, good luck and everything, but eventually discipline fails. Sooner or later it happens that we lack discipline.
The key to succeed is probably the attitude suggested by @TheFinalFrontier: creating a burning desire to live a fulfilling life, and enjoying that life dedicated to your highest purpose. Then PMO will appear miserable.
I’m currently experimenting with this method too, hoping it works.
Now go @Tagore, live your life and succeed! Greatness is waiting for you! 
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