2021: TAGORE'S YEAR OF RESURRECTION ( 20 m )

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@Tagore you are the king. Thanks for all the motivation that you provide. I relapsed again to be honest. I have become too weak. I think I should either die now. Or man up. I am a Brahmachari. I am a celibate who is learning the art of complete celibacy. I noticed today that I just need to control my mind. That’s all. I will be back guys. But I am serious in wanting to go full alone. Maybe it might take a couple of more relapses because I am listening too much to my mind. But eventually I will learn to fully be at peace with myself without needing anybody. This is the point where I want to be. Because I want to be a leader in the future. And leaders do not require accountability. This is my reason to not use this forum now. But I am dying every single day because I am relapsing every single day. This will change sooner or later. Sooner. I am a Brahmachari now. This is who I am. An Akhand Brahmachari who just needs to control his mind.

“Control your mind. Control everything. It is hard to control your mind. But it is the only thing that matters”.

  • TheFinalFrontier.

I cant rely on any group. I cannot rely on chasing goals to escape myself. I want peace. And I am taking a spiritual path this time. Not a path of forcing myself to escape through my goals.

I DO NOT WANT TO BE THE GREATEST. SORRY TO DISAPPOINT YOU. I WANT TO BE CAPABLE ENOUGH TO SERVE HUMANITY. AND IN THAT PROCESS IF I NEED TO BE THE GREATEST, THEN SO BE IT.

BUT I WANT TO SERVE A LARGER PURPOSE. A LARGER VISION. THAT TRANSFORMS PEOPLE AND HUMANITY.

I just relapsed. I cannot say if this is gonna be the last relapse. But days are passing by. And I might be an average FOREVER. If I do not stop now …

I surrender to god. and ask for help from the divine now.

Yes, no more big claims guys. I need to rise to the level of God. This is a dark phase in my life. I know things will go worse. But I am ready. To fight. Just need the strength.

Bye.

SEPTEMBER 20, 2020 IS THE LAST RELAPSE.
I AM ON AN AKHANDA BRAHMACHARYA.

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Man the fuck up bro. You know how to do it, you have done it before. You are the one who reached 140+ days and in the last streak we all saw you reaching 60+ days with such power and motivation that we all thought you are unstoppable. But shit happens in life, you know this addiction is not an easy game. Its hard. I only reached 19 days and Iam getting heavy urges these days. The only way is go through the pain, it we escape the pain by giving in to ■■■■ we are deciding to destroy our life all future.
If you touched rock bottom in life now, then call yourself out bro. I personally texted you about it.

You are. Saying all these because you are going through a hard times and we all have to go through these kind of phases at some time or the other. The thing is keep the faith and commit 100%
You know how to do it. We don’t need to explain it to you. You have done it before, everyone has their own way and method of taking ownership. You can brother. We are all here for you.

Be uncomfortable everyday. Wake up at 4. Run. Lift weights. Don’t rest your body and mind, don’t be idle that is when urges will start killing you.

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September 21

:x: Wake up (8:40 am)
:white_check_mark: Make my bed
:x: Write 1 hour
:x: Running
:x: Cold shower at 7
:x: Om Chanting
:white_check_mark: Meditation (10 minutes)
:white_check_mark: Pranayam (anulom vilom)
:x: Journal + gratitude exercise
:x: Full body stretching
:white_check_mark: Vajrasana after lunch
:white_check_mark: Reading (atomic habits)
:white_check_mark: Pray + Bhagavad-Gita
:white_check_mark: No Junk food
:x: Mindful eating + chew 22 times
:x: No YouTube
:white_check_mark: No TV
:white_check_mark: Sleep before 11
:x: Work 9 hours (5:1/2 hours brother @_TIGER today you won. Tomorrow I’ll give up everything and will get to work. Got a lot of assignments and preparations to do for exam. Iam on fight!)

Sorry man, today I went the path of least resistance, I woke up very late and that had a huge impact on my whole day.
This will not be repeated. I did fasting till evening but if I sleep through again I will clean the whole compound of my house and rooms. That is the punishment.The next 6 days of this week I’ll be totally uncomfortable and giving my best. That is the only way.

KEEP PUSHING

STAY ON FIGHT!

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Keep Going My Dear Brother

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Getting strong urges these days but I have to go forward. God, this is hard but I have no other option. I can either choose my desired life now or a life filled with eternal pain and instant gratification.

Delayed gratification is true happiness.

Delayed gratification is true happiness!

Delayed gratification is true happiness!

Delayed gratification is true happiness!

Delayed gratification is true happiness!

Go forward, do whatever you want but please please don’t look back.
Crawl if you want. Cry but fapping will destroy everything. You know, now, you are slowly getting back your focus, creativity, energy and power. It will all go back to 0 in a moment’s carelessness. I have promises to keep, goals to achieve. I have to be truthful to myself man!
Iam fucked up man, like millions out there fapping their life off I cannot do that. I have been studying Nietzsche these days and his idea of superman interests me a lot.
Walking off from the crowd.
Re-evaluating and restructuring our values. Going with the crowd is easy, instant gratification is easy, being average is easy.
But it takes effort, hardwork, suffering and pain to grow, to be great and to become the best. Iam going the right way. I know it’s hard, but I have no otther choice.

Tight slap of reality by my brother @strongwillpower
Everyone going through hard times, I suggest read it again with real focus @Deadpoolgupta read this bro :backhand_index_pointing_up::backhand_index_pointing_up:

Iam reading this message carefully again. This is the reality, if I give up now Iam sure I’ll get into chaser effect and will spiral downwards. As a result I’ll erase all the Improvements and real hardwork I’ve done in the last 20 days. Man, I was really working hard in the last 20 days, I was Consistent, I have to continue it. What is the use of jumping in the fire even when we know that it’ll kill us. This PMO is a repetitive cycle.
We all know drugs, alcohol etc has detroyed lives of millions of people. Pmo is also the same. Thousands of people’s lives have been totally ruined in this 15 years of existence of ■■■■. If I change in this moment, in this last chance of mine I can get our of hell. If I give up this time everything is over.

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Are you a Celibate ?

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You’re speaking the truth. The precise moment when you determine your future success or ruin your life is now.
Don’t let this temporary failure, the fact that you haven’t completed your habits, stop you. Go on. You’re gaining energy, focus, every day. Keep growing. :facepunch:

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Same situation …I am thinking why I relapsed that day ??? That’s why it’s very tough to complete 15 days…

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I’ll remember that
Always

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This will be my affirmation now !!!

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What is meaning of delayed gratification ?
I have heard about delayed ejaculation but this is a new concept. Plz help.

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Thanks guys for being here in this journey with me. It helps a lot. Acting as pillars for each other, helping each other, this is a great community man.
Especially @StevenSuccessJourney keep going Brother. You have been there for me and with me for a long time now. Iam with you always as well, please go forward.

Those feelings will pass if we don’t act weak and give up. Now I consider these urges as test on our strength by God. He wants to see how much we can bear.

Don’t give up guys, now I feel ok and uplifted because I didn’t give in to that 5 seconds pleasure. I went the opposite direction.
@_TIGER keep going man. It will be hard only in the initial days. We can, we have done it before. Keep going with faith.
Brother @Powerfulman delayed gratification is the opposite of instant gratification. When we fap, eat Junk food, watch comedy videos in youtube etc we are choosing instant gratification. We get instant doses of pleasure but lasting regret after finishing that activity.
Whereas delayed gratification is all about choosing pain, suffering, hardship in the moment for a great future. You are working for your future self.
Like going to the gym everyday, even on days you don’t feel like it. Waking up at 4 am and studying. Running in the morning, sleeping less hours and working 9-10 hours. These are all delayed gratification- it is hard to do in the moment but afterwards it gives us real happiness. It is the secret to a great life man.

Anyone can be comfortable and be average but it takes real pain, suffering and hardwork to grow and become great.

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September 22

:white_check_mark: wake up (4:45 am)
:white_check_mark: Make my bed
:white_check_mark: Write/work for 2 hours
:white_check_mark: Running (broke my personal record- ran 5 Kms)
:white_check_mark: Cold shower at 7
:white_check_mark: Om chanting
:white_check_mark: Meditation (10 minutes)
:white_check_mark: Pranayam on vajrasana (anulom vilom, bhramri)
:white_check_mark: Visualization
:white_check_mark: Full body stretching
:white_check_mark: Soorya namaskar
:white_check_mark: Vajrasana after lunch
:white_check_mark: Reading (cant hurt me)
:white_check_mark: Pray + Bhagavad-Gita
:white_check_mark: No Junk food
:x: Mindful eating + chew 22 times
:white_check_mark: YouTube 15 minutes (after running I’ll watch some Goggins)
:white_check_mark: No TV
:white_check_mark: Sleep before 11
WORK 9+ HOURS: 6:1/2 Hours. (@_TIGER you won today as well, I believe. Phone is my distraction. Tomorrow I’ll throw this shit into dustbin and work!)

Nothing great can be achieved by being comfortable. We have to push limits and suffer. Work hard, God is with us, he always wants the best for us. We have to give our 100% to make things happen!

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One thing I noticed we are same mindset .we are going through same situation .and near same streak…it’s okay to do 4 or 5 or 6 hrs …after 15 or 20 days we will do 9 hrs…

you won the match .

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September 23

:white_check_mark: Wake up (5 am)
:white_check_mark: Make my bed
:white_check_mark: Write/work 1 hour
:white_check_mark: Running
:white_check_mark: Cold shower at 7
:white_check_mark: On chanting
:white_check_mark: Meditation (10 minutes)
:white_check_mark: Pranayam (anulom vilom + bhramri)
:white_check_mark: Visualization
:white_check_mark: Vajrasana after food
:white_check_mark: Reading (atomic habits)
:white_check_mark: Pray + Bhagavad-Gita
:white_check_mark: No Junk food
:white_check_mark: YouTube 15 minutes
:white_check_mark: No TV
:white_check_mark: Sleep before 11
:x: Full body stretching
:x: Mindful eating + chew 22+ times.
WORK 9+ HOURS: 7 1/2 HOURS (How was the day my brother @_TIGER? Now, I have to thank you from the bottom of my heart man. You brought me back into the path of hardwork again. I don’t know how to express my gratitude. My sole focus now is work, push limits and get things done! Exams are coming too so I have to seriously study as well)

Also I found a new method to count hours of work along with keeping ourselves motivated. I found this technique in atomic habits. Take a box and put 10 peaces of paper in it. As you complete each hour of work take off one. This simple activity keeps us motivated and focused in the moment and will also remind us the value of each hour of a day. This is working for me. You can try this too maybe bro @_TIGER

That aside getting strong urges these days. Whenever i get free time I think about girls. Man I want intimacy, I want to connect with some girl. But, to speak honestly, Iam insecure and fucked up in the inside.

Firstly I have to get my shit together before thinking about relationships!

Delayed gratification is true happiness!

Instant gratification is eternal pain!

Discipline Equals freedom!

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My dear brother @Tagore kiling it! Keep this up bro. I’ve been down for the last couple of days, messing up constantly, feeling weak and disoriented, overall in a really bad position. Reading all this really gives me a boost. Whenever I feel down, I need to come to the forum and read stuff like this. I’m ready to dust it off, and start again with my fists clenched once more. Let’s succeed together. :fire::fire:

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Tagore become my friend. I want a strong friend like you.

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Efficient technique bro…Best Wishes for you and @_TIGER. Discipline Equals Freedom

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@Tagore if you keep grinding everyday, the compound effect will be amazing. Over time you will become an extraordinary person, you will grow a lot and become more than good enough to deserve a relationship.
I’m with you :handshake:

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Bro… Can you provide me a link of book of atomic habits…
Is it the same hackbook which Murshid is provided?

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