I am 28. I had good relationship with my gf. I kicked her out. I was always irritated and agitated. Porn induced me to involve in same sex relationship for about a year for multiple partners. I contracted STDs. I am suffering from severe PE and PIED. Recently my family fixed arranged marriage…I prayed God to cancel it or ateast postpone it. God listened. It got cancelled. Now i have come to my senses. I cannot destroy another woman life. I must be free from pe and pied first. So Am observing Akhanda Brahmacharya for 3 years.
After practicing no fap iam getting call from my ex gf to get patch up again. But i cannot. Cause i have no such an extreme pe that i discharge within seconds. This all due to pmo.
So Even if God says not to observe Akhanda Brahmacharya I will go against God and observe it. At this point of life i don’t want anything but a clean lifestyle. @TheFinalFrontier When you are a man and you are unable to perform in bed…you will loose your self respect man. It hurts deep inside.
Same sex relationship ? Where are you from ? No offense but just if you are from India, it might be difficult. Do you think Porn caused that inclination ? Again not disrespecting you but just wanted to know
Iam from Nepal. See… I did not have any of fantasies till age 25. but at that age …after watching days and months of ■■■■…i got so many weird fanatsies…I wanted to experiment different unnatural forms of sex which my gf resisted. So i started to find different ways to fulfill that fantasies. And I messed up. After a year, i contracted stds and i came back to my senses. ■■■■ will make you animal. When i try to remember those incidents now i get shocked.
No problem @TheFinalFrontier I a frank person. You cannot disrespect me if you wish too . Iam not here to get respect or love or sympathy. Once I get deaddicted I will be out of this forum
Damn bro, you in a sticky situation but I do wish you the best for your life, your life comes before others, if you can change yourself, only then you can change others.
You have your own views brother @Dvija and I respect it.
But this is totally a false claim. Gandhi was in no way responsible for the partition of India. It was Jinnah who wanted a new country for Muslims and that too due to the urging of British due to their strategy of divide and rule.
When Gandhi heard from Jinnah that he wanted partition, you know what he said?
He told Nehru to stand down and asked Jinnah to be the prime minister on India. Only a man like Gandhi can even dare to think like that. For him there was no other, everyone was equal. He told it openly and he was with Jinnah. But due to communal riots of Hindus other Congress members were not able to do it.
Gandhi was the loneliest man in India when the freedom came. No one was with him and he was doing Satyagraha. And for what?
To give the money that rightfully belonged to Pakistan and to end coummnal riots
He was a great man. And lets talk with facts.
If he wasn’t there, India would have become a lake of blood, no doubt in that. Lets be honest brother. Still, this is my belief and you can keep yours @Dvija
Some Asanas or yogic postures for semen retention or sexual transmutation or in the yogic terms converting veerya (semen) into Ojas Shakti for the brain.
(Above all, offcourse to avoid wet dreams. Though many other factors are also responsible for this including thought process, food habits, discipline etc these asanas and Meditation can help a lot.
Shirshasana- Known as the king of Asanas. The benifits this Asana brings are inumerable and scientifically proved now. It makes the blood, oxygen etc flow into the brain like waterfalls, for each and every internal organ this is good and two, three pages are required to write about the benifits of this Asana. For us, Fapstronauts this Asana helps in convertiing semen into Ojas Shakti for the Brian.
Shashngasana- queen of asanas. Innumerable benifits. Please Google it to learn more; If I decide to write all of it here then this whole day I have to sit writing about it. Along with avoiding laziness, providing self control, curing insomnia, depression it can provide you the strength for facing any hard situation in life upto the point of becoming emotionless, if you want. BUT DAILY PRACTICE IS NEEDED for months and years but just by doing for 2 days itself you’ll start reaping benifits
Siddhasana- Known as the perfect pose. It is written in Maharishi Patanjali’s text that if you Practice siddhasana for 12 years + thoughts on self and Brahman you can achieve Moksha or liberation. This is one of the best Asanas to control sexual urges, lust etc. Along with reducing stress, keeping the mind alert, calming the nervous system, activating the chakra which helps in awakening kundalini energy it helps in practicing celibacy by stabilizing and improving sexual energy due to the position of the heels of the leg. To learn more Google or search in YouTube.
Matyasana- Practice this after doing Sirshana and Saravangasana (both of them together called viparitha karani mudra) to reap the total benifits of viparitha karani mudra. This is very helpful for general health, improves immunity and much more.
Paschimottanasana and padahasthasan- Allows the prana move through sushumna Nadi which allows the kundalini to awaken, strengthens and purifies it. Calms the brain, relieve stress, avoids mild depression and much more. Above all, by making the blood flow fastly into the Brian your mental strength will improve drastically. There are inumerable other health benifits as well. Google!
Sashangasan- do it before going into Sirshanasan. Blood flows into the brain, helps in converting sexual energy into Ojas Shakti for brain.
Maha Bandha- To simply define this in the words of a yoga master: “the purpose of bandhas is to move prana up the Sushumna (the main channel for the flow of nervous energy up the spinal column). This upward movement of energy is the goal of yoga in the classical sense of the word”. In scientific terms bandhas influence the secretion of hormones released by the pineal gland i.e., dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin etc. Rewiring will be faster, brain power increases, spirituality improves. It stimulates the function of whole endocrine system therefore helps control your mood, growth and development, the way our organs work, metabolism and reproduction. Revitilize each and every cell in the body, prepares the mind for deeper Meditation and much more.
Pranayama - The best thing you can do for semen retention and to uplift your life instantly. Bhastrika and anulom vilom are very helpful for Brahmacharya. There are many easy and powerful Pranayams you can practice including Kapalbanti (revitalise the whole body. Like Sirshasana, its benifits are inumerable), agnisar, shithali breath, anulom vilom, Bramri, bhastrika etc.
Ashwini mudra- very helpful for semen retention, sexual health, awakening the dormant of kundalini Shakti etc. Much more health benefits like cures all the diseases of rectum and anus, cures constipation, controls prana that tends to move downward and escape from the body and turns the prana upward, conquers stress and depression and much more.
Omkar Chating or Gayatri mantra if interested. It purifies the mind. It can be used for Meditation.
Do this regularly to reap real benefits.
To achieve real strength of semen retention along with Asanas and pranayama eradicate lust from your mind- make thoughts pure i.e., view mother in all girls including p*stars, or view what is inside their body- viens, blood, bones, secretion and internal organs with vomit-producing smell, do fasting, Practice mitahara or moderation in food, avoid negative emotions, wake up at 4 am- most of the wet dreams take place in the 4th quarter of sleep, so if you wake up at 3 or 4, you can avoid many of them, Meditation, Soorya namaskar, satsanga or good company etc.
As I learn about more about Asanas and Brahmacharya I’ll update, for interested people.
For people who are looking for a good start in yoga, this is a good one
@Tagore Iam speechless. When Netaji Subash chandra bose was elected who oppose him but propose Nehru? Why sardar patelji was sidelined? Why he did not oppose the death sentence of Sahid Bhagat Sing? Why he supported Khalifa movement? Why he turned a blind eye in Moplah riots? Why he was silent on the Day of Direct Action? Why Ambedar said Gandhi is never a mahatma? If he was a mahatma, why he was lonely? Where had gone the people? Why noone was with him? Give money rightfully belonged to pakistan? But where is Kashmir you guys righfully deserve? Where is POk? Where is aksai chin? Where is Nankana Sahib? Is this the right way to fuction a country?? @Tagore this Fakiri suits only on personal level. If a nation is led by fakiri style that nation will soon be doomed. Sleeping naked with daughters and sisters and calling the great experimenter of truth. My foot! Ok Iam living Mr. Gandhi here. Its not good for an aspiring brahmachari (me) to criticize somebody. But, even in my dreams i will never consider Gandhi “Mahatma” for me he is a "“Duratma” in guise.
First of all we should have the courage to accept a person as he/she is/was. We should not judge anybody.
What I can say is we should see the silver linings in the dark clouds.
Gandhi is a personality which shows how a common person can transform him/herself to a mahatma. Actually he is depiction of a common man- full of imperfections (he stole, he lied, he indulged in carnal pleasure, he was a ptriarch etc). But he is also an example of possibility- possibility to transform oneself for better. He stood firm of his decisions, however conservative it was and so on.
We have a lot to learn from him.
Lets see the positive aspects. Filter the best out of people/things/incidents and try to improve ourselves.
You are getting into fire brother @_TIGER . Keep going and prove to this world your real strength.
If you haven’t read this book yet, it is highly recommended brother. This the 10th step to riches in the Napolean Hill’s timeless classic- Think and Grow Rich- Sexual Transmutation.
. Iam not here to get respect or love or sympathy. Once I get deaddicted I will be out of this forum 
1]wake up - 4.00am
2]take water -1 bottle