I am just curious about the differences between the side effects of actual sex and masturbation.
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Time to call all our non virgin brothers and sisters.
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There are none lol
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There are some married guys here. Don’t know about married women.
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There are women on this forum?
Damn, you never saw any topic under “sister support” category?
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I didn’t know that women struggled with PMO, I thought that that was a dude thing.
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Well I never had sex (which is normal since I’m still 17) but I can tell you one thing that is logical. The hand force is a lot stronger than the force you experience while having sex. Plus you’re not wasting your energy in the air you are actually creating a more powerful bond with your wife.
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Add to that the unreal strength of a saiyaan.
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Well if I am correct then @Nerbo is married So may be he can answer this question better than anyone ok I am not confirmed either about him being married or not but I read his his reply in a topic where he was saying something about 8 years relationship…
Ok sorry if my speculations are incorrect.
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Damn, when did this happen? Because he said he ain’t gonna marry without inviting me in his wedding.
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I have a very simple answer. Forget negative side of masturbation, see the habit itself as disgusting. Its an act of degeneracy. But is sex the same? Definitely not( atleast if you are not addicted to it). Its done so that you can pass down your legacy and your genes. And yes it also develops the bond between partners.
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Just now but we have not invited you because you may use your byakugan there So for safety reasons he don’t invited you . Or rahi baat meri toh mea bin bulaya barati tha free khana khane ghus gya tabhi shikamaru ne mujhe shadow possession se pakad ke nale mea phikwa Diya abhi wahi se live typing kar rha hun.
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@prince_king from here I read about it that’s why I tagged him .
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No issues. But he isn’t married.
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Ohh I see I thought he is a 30 year old married proffesser.
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40 year old married PhD here… Just trying to help a little on this question. Without religious/ spiritual context.
What is our main issue with masturbation?
IMHO it is not the enjoyment of the main body which may even be healthy - it is that we perverted the love to our body into a cheap dopamine source. And yes we all use ■■■■ as super cheap super fuel for our addiction.
Having a glass of wine is nice and healthy for most people, but for an alcohol addict it will send him down rock bottom.
So for the masturbation part: it is possible to avoid masturbation - I am pretty sure there is no biological negative impact. It is ridiculously hard as we all trained our brains pretty good that masturbation is the fast lane to luck - dopamine rush. There is no need to masturbate as there is no need to drink alcohol. ( Yet most wouldn’t manage to stay sober even not addicted).
Guess target may be to get back into self-love after a pretty long abstinence without ■■■■ and crazy phantasies / would be lovely wouldn’t it?
Going to the sex part. And let’s split this between hooker/ons/tinder date fucking going down the same addiction road - searching for cheap joy. Maybe not a target trying to focus on.
Really hard one is the partnership sex time. I think a (loving) partnership without sex is hard to manage. One thing leads to another aaand there we are. But: it triggers the same stupid brain areas as masturbation. Most times I relapsed was caused by normal sex. Pretty long streaks with limited urges but after sex I was so high that I masturbated over and over going back to zero.
But real sex additionally triggers the serotonin flow increasing the emotional bonds between partners.
I’m trying now to go monk mode for at least a month and need to find a way to lock away my urges after having sex for some days until my brain is back to normal - anyone advice on that?
Long story short: Side effects are more less the same but the bonding part in real relationship sex.
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Dang, with too few non virgins here, I guess it’s difficult to put our points forward when we haven’t got any experience in that arena.
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I agree with most of what @cornholio1234 has to say. Now I would like to provide my input as well but the better (and easier) thing for me to do would be to suggest you to read the book “Your Brain on Po®n” by Gary Wilson.
Alright, I’ll just list a few adverse effects of corn real quick here…
Death grip syndrome (@Binocular already talked about this)
Corn induced erectile dysfunction - You are so habituated to endless novel stimuli that it’s difficult to stay erect with your partner. She is just not enough for you.
Morphing sexual tastes - you gradually progress to more and more extreme genres… shemale, sissyhypno, necrophilia… at some point, you’ll even begin to question your own sexuality…
There’s more, but I think you get the idea…
Edit: so your question was are these side effects not also possible with sex?
The short answer is - mostly no… and the reason is, sex is really hard to get… there is no way sex can match the ease and rate of novelty you get with corn…, literally 100s of girls each doing a different thing on the next tab, all you gotta do is click
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Took me 10 minutes of online chatting to book a decent looking female for hookup 3 months ago, but I scared her off because of my dignity and honour. It’s pretty much possible if you know where to look for about these stuffs.
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