After having multiple streaks of not fapping from past couple of years. I’ve finally understood the urges and sexual desires.
To begin with, fapping or any sexual thing isn’t a bad thing instead if you’re getting urges it only means you have a lot of sexuality in you.
But its only near your legs or in women maybe near breasts or around lips and neck and thats natural, nature have designed the male and female bodies like that.
Peak of sexual orgasm isnt ejaculation from my experience but the peak comes when you carry this whole sexual urge throughout your body. When the whole body becomes sexual and gets sensitive.
The problem is a lof of people see ■■■■ and urges as a bad thing, which really is not but merely a basic thing and if you will fight with it, you’re destroying your sexuality, you are trying to suppress your urges and sexuality which you can not, you can try for few days, months or years but the energy supressed around legs will always comeout back through it.
Instead what you need to do is, work on your glutes that where this energy is stored and from only there it rise. Do squats,hip thrusts, leg presses and you’ll feel your urges getting x 100 times and then start channelizing it through dance,meditation and yoga Because you need urges and by that i means a lot of urges and sexuality inside you. Sex at the basic level is ugly but sex at the greatest level is not.
And only then you’ll be able to come out of it and realize the truth otherwise you’ll always be sexually attracted to one who have more sexuality inside them and thats how nature works.
I know a lot of guys will come here now trying to stop fapping from a big big time and yell at me for promoting it but in reality am not. I am just bridging fapping into something more bigger and i dont care. The truth is truth