Why do I fall for a cute girl?

Hi friends,

I am 27M. I am on hard mode day 39. I am planning to lead a life of celibacy for at least 2 years. But my biggest distraction is a cute looking girl with whom I chat on WhatsApp. Eventhough she treats me just as a friend but I am very much interested in her.
I try my best to not think about her but I eagerly wait for her replies. I feel kinda void if I don’t text her for few days.
What should I do ? How should I Focus on my work and my vow of practicing celibacy. Though I don’t take a sneak peak into porn , soft porn , hot scenes and even random hot girl passing by. But this one girl distracts me lot.

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Bhai agar yaha fass gya toh kuch nahi kar paayega tere dreams pe. Agar Jeevan mein aage badhna hai toh त्याग की भावना रख । Yeh Sab cheeze temporary hai . Usse baat karna band kar aur Apne 2019 ke dreams pe kaam kar . Otherwise kuch nahi milega . बावला मत हो छोरि के बारे में सोच सोच कर ।

Mein itna intellectual toh nahi hu jitna isse form pe log hai but jo kehta hu wo hi Satay hai .

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Sahi bola but baar baar dimag me aati hai

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Toh bhai dimag mein toh aayegi tu koi Bhagwan thodina hai. Insaan hai teri bhi desires h andar hi andar tu bhi chahta hai ki cute so ladki set ho aur life mast ho . Bhai tune itne din usse se baate ki hai attachment toh hoga hi kyon ki tune shayad itni kisi ladki se baat ki nahi hogi ya fir ko butI trigger hoga uska like uski baate, cute face , body etc jo tuje uski aur keechti hai .

Agar isko kuch din neglecte kar dega toh mind wapas normal ho jaayega . Apne subconscious mind mein daal le yeh cheez . Sab MOH maaya hai . Ladki toh pata nahi shayd tuje mile ya nahi but dreams ke loode jarur lag jaayenge

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Sahi bola pichhle ek saal se baar KR RHA Hoon
इसीलिए अब बाते बंद करने का मन नहीं करता।
हा कुछ sacrifice to krna पड़ेगा

Thanks ye thread band krta Hoon ab

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Bhai dekh mein yeh nahi kehta ki tu koi ladki deserve nahi karta . But Abhi yeh time right nahi . Tune apni health Sahi karni hai , company mein officer Banna hai , bahut saari books padhne hai , foregin Jana hai , ek aachi kaashi salary uthani hai tuje .

Jo itne years apan ne bewokoofi ki agar 2 years tu dedicate hokar Apne dreams pe kaam kar lega toh saari life ki भरपाई ho jaayegi jo bhi apan ne khoya hai .

Bas focused reh . Aur usse ladki se band kar baate karna 1 years se time kothi kar Raha hai and still you are friend. Aab samaj ja tu

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Cut her out. Completely.

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Bro i can give you two reasons to leave this cute girl

  1. you’re in friend zone. : Never ever stay at friend zone, bhai usse Kiya pata nhi ki tu usse like karta hai, … pata hai usse aur wo jaanbuj ke friend zone Kari baithi hai. Not only you , guys out there whoever are in friend zone get out of it,

  2. It might lead to your relapse : you might wanna check this out. Please opine on what to do?

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Thanks for motivating. You are awesome.

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You should give next three years of your life to yourself.

Cute Girls will come in your life once you become successful.

Example : 64 old man padam shri award winner anup jalota… A young sexy girl of age 25 wants to marry him… she is sleeping with him for 3 years.

And you are very much younger … you can do wonders.

Bhaishab mera pas to cute ladki bhi hain… jab chahe uski chut mar sakta hun… par mujhe self realize hua… 2 saal sex karne ke baad ki… desires kabhi puri nahi hoti… phir mein mutthi marta hun… porn dekh kar… jabki meri wife… sab kuch karne ko tayar ha jo mein kaho… woh mera liya mera lund chus leti hain… jabki usse ye accha nahi lagta…
Bhia… maine itna sikha hain ki… jitna hum apni indriyo ko satisfy karte rahenga … utna hi hamara sarvnash ho jata hain…

Jabki… theek iske ulta… ek brahmachari… duniya ka sabse khush aadmi hota hain.

Main tujhe ek hi advice dunga… pehle… apne ap ko kamyab kar… phir shadi kar ke sex bhog le… tujhe khud hi… samaj aa jayenga phir… kya accha hain… or kya bura hain.
:pray:

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Thanks a lot @resurrection brothrt

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I don’t see why texting a girl is a problem unless it is taking too much of your time.You are most likely severely friend-zoned though.If the conversations have some depth and you are learning useful information definitely keep going.Being social even online can help keep you away from PMO.

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