I just need share something it’s a off the topic . Today someone ghosted me . I try contact him but he already blocked my number and others social media too . Idk why he ghosted me me talk good in yesterday and good connection with each other ldk what happened with him and even l can’t focus on my studies due to this my exam is coming soon. Today l crying whole day 
. Mostly boys are here any one explain me why boys do such a thing with girls ? 
Any one give me a tips and solutions?
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Really I had ghosted by 3 girls last month
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Sorry sad brother @Covertxomic but what about feeling why people don’t care for your feelings
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Because they’ve their own life & probably he/she not interested on you
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Its because people really don’t see us as a person but as an object be it female or male.
They don’t accept us as we are
They don’t understand our feelings
You don’t have to care about them either
You need to search for a person who would love you regardless of who you are or what you do etc
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If he not interested in me why he talked first place ? Then why he showed so much interested in the beginning brother @Covertxomic
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Thank you for words hope one day l find that one believe in god brother @anon57481107 
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Actually people lose intrest with time you seems like boring to them so they simply don’t start to talking that’s it. In starting, they were interested on you
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Good keep going.
Remember its not you who is at fault
Its them who are at actual fault for failing to understand you
Its their fault
So they don’t deserve you
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What about that promise we made to each other 
now l feel like all are promise are fake 
and our conversation also a fake or illusion too
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Yeah it hurts in beginning but we’ve to move on with time it has been 2 years since I last talked with my ex. She ghosted me anonymously I had no idea also she blocked me from everywhere. But with time everything started settled down we’ve moved on. In starting it was difficult but it got faded away with time
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I know it’s not my fault 
hope God send somone who truly love me one day hope so
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Hope l move on soon too
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It’s totally subjective sister.
May be he was only there because he wanted thrill, which you gave him. Once he had was satisfied, he left. May be he had multiple such girls, I am sorry for the wording, but it’s totally possible he was talking to multiple girls, so he blocked you because some other girl was more thrilling to him.
Don’t think it is because he thought you were not interesting. I assure, it’s not that point, you were interesting, but his priorities, what he sought was different.
If he is a nerd, it may be possible he thought he is wasting his time & yours, (if you really shared a very strong emotional bond).
Assuming he blocked you without any talks says alot about he doesn’t want to defend his points and just wanted a quick escape without accountability whatever the reason may be.
You are lucky, he left you, it’s his loss & a opportunity for you. Find someone who yearns to stay with you always, tbh true love is subtle in its ways. You won’t have too much of it, but the amount even less will be enough for you to be happy all day long.
& Never take 2-3 months old relationship seriously, prioritise yourself. Only when you have spent a year together you be commited, even more. True love never runs, it waits.
Delete all his messages, it will hurt but do it. Delete his contact & block him. Don’t wait. Move on. Find someone, explore relationship with the one you find most unique and attracted to, & tbh more important than being in a relationship embrace friendships with boys in general.
You will be fulfilled once your social environment is filled with different characters, not just one person.
Well, I had a breakup too, I know how it feels alright. Just some days ago, I saw a boy in her profile & dang it all went downhill. I don’t know, I won’t say I am not hurt but It’s not making me have a breakdown. I have a family, I tranfer my love to them, they embrace it. I have friends, they make me happy, I have this forum where I come, feels good. I don’t even think about her.
Study hard, for now. Think about all this stuff after your exam. May be you can have a proper closure if you want. But there is never a proper closure, we always seek to stay, so suggestion is avoid it.
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Not only boys but also girls .
The person who is more attached will feel this way , it might take few weeks for other person to move on but it takes months and years for another. What’s your age though sis?
You will feel this way if you were attached to him and it’s inevitable tbh in the start , even if you will try to be busy you might get one flash back and that will shatter you , let time do it’s magic and keep working on yourself. Maybe you won’t take months like others .
Take care , can relate !
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That is why i am never interested in relationship. Let us stay with peace and joy as this age wont come again. No more calls, no more gm, gn msgs, fights, saying luv u formally, we have to inform them when we go out, if there is a fight we will think abt that all the time, we will be hpyer if they talk to their opposite gender, we dont have choice, we should spend money for them, cant focus on studies
These all r unwanted stuffs . Let ur youthness be at peace and fun. After u get married at any age for both genders we will be compulsed or principled to live with some restrictions. Its just a 2 months of attraction… They both will speak everything, they find some care and love there, they fall for each other, they may do some stuffs, and they will restrict the other one not to do the his/ her wishes… These all things we will face when we get into married. Until that day, enjoy ur life with freedom. Its my pov to say u that dont get into another for some while.
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Thank you guys for your advice @Awaken_one , @Sholtro_Tenjerrot , @anon63367197
I need to protect myself at any cost , also my first priority is me l need focus on my self
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The way you wrote, Protect yourself yes, it’s important. We are vulnerable to bad stuff when we are sad and can’t keep up with our emotions. Take time to heal, study, go in nature, spend time with family.
Start interacting with social groups, ones with goals resembling to yours. May be you will find happiness there & won’t need a lover to fulfill that space until the right time.
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You should stop wasting your time on this type of people also whenever the time comes you will get your love one right now just focus on yourself stop talking to strangers in social media and stay happy.
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