I remember I found porn on my PC saved by my cousin. I started extremely shrinking when I view it. Some thing was trying to stop me. But my innerself wanted to try this new thing. Nobody taught me how to masturbate but somehow porn did it. Awareness is important to understand this trap. I think nofap should be taught to younger ones more importantly than basic education.
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Also thought about it many times and I found many answers.
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Our friends seems to enjoy it and if you admire them, you will try to watch it thinking it can complete what you lack.(it was my reason, I followed my one of friend )
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Some come to conclusion porn can reduce our stress. Surely it reduces but then also later it becomes stress and addiction.
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Creativity and eagerness to know :- it is a reason which get mixed with other reasons to become strong. We want to know more it’s natural. But there is also a divine intelligence in us which knows everything i.e God tells us to stop but it’s on our will , karma, influence and believe to either stop or keep going .
Thats my conclusion.
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Third reason we want to try something new is a big reason
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I started first without porn instead I started with masturbation complete randomly. I was one time as a child alone laying on my couch and my mhm was between two parts of the couch and i was moving a bit bc kids are always a bit hyper. And it felt really good and like that i masturabted. After 2 years or so my friends showed me porn websites and I did it. Now I’m here on my streak with 20days this is my max. I try to get to the month and even more !
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You’re here because you will do something great.
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The other reasons I think we view porn is plain curiosity, also being a bit rebellious against ypur parents. I mean most addictions like drugs drinking and smoking also start out like it.
I mean you see someone drink beer when you were a child and you always wanna kmow how it feels like. It looks so damn cool to drink beer… also we are told not to smoke, drink and do drugs all the taboos… we trap ourselves in thinking what will beer or that cigarette actually do I mean 1 can’t do no harm right? Just trying it is worth it then I know how it feels… then I am okay. But then it happens that you do it secretly and you know in secrecy things are kinda ‘fun’ and that is what is keeping us hooked…
I was a curious bugger… I learnt masterbation by humping stuff… I later just tiped in porn when I was in high school as I was always told to stay away from it and I really became curious. I knew alot about sex, from books my parents gave me… But yeah sexually I didn’t really explore and experiment as I was more focused on school and I didn’t have alot of girlfriends. So yeah the way I explored was through porn. I rebelled a bit against my parents and they still don’t know about… Part like I said what they don’t know wouldn’t hurt them and I can continue to do it and I skip out on shame…
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But it’s time think abou yourself. Now because parents don’t know it so they can’t help you. Take step and do something from your life.
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