When can I fap again?

Earlier I used to fap daily once. It was not hampering anything but it made me anxious as I was not under the control of my body. But when I got to know about this app, it gave me reason to fight back with myself. Today it’s been 19 days and I am ok. Once on day 14, I had strong urge but I controlled by having snacks and distracting myself.
Everyday is normal, all caught up with work. But every then and now, I feel its ok to masturbate once in a week or fortnight or month. But I am confused, when can I fap again? If not weekly/monthly then till I have to keep up with the streak? Till when I have to fight back.
Please help me by clearing my confusion. What if I didn’t fap for 100 days, what benefits will it bring?

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What benefits?

You will be hold your power and will not be a slave of porn.

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Dude, the true motive of nofap is to not fap, don’t watch porn and any other erotic things. Anyways if your only motive of doing nofap is just to fap again then I’m sure you are not gonna be successful.
And about benefits, they are not actually benifits, it’s just like you are regaining all the things that you lost in the past. Don’t do nofap for only benifits. Use it as a hack, to do productive things.
You will surely get benifits but after getting benefits, if you start fapping again then what’s the point of starting it?
I’m again saying they are not benifits, it’s just like a normal person should live. Not like porn addicts. It’s a process to regain all of our lost things
Why don’t you find out your self by reaching on day 100😀

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Well said @nofapstar123

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Its totally okay if u think u r under control and can do it at ur will…
But ask a question
R u really under control?
If u were
Not doing at all is the only option u will get
Take a example of a smoker and non smoker
Smokers thinks he is under control and can do once in a while but non smokers thinks its a waste of time and he knows it is addicting…
Does smoking have any benefits? No
But quitting it has so many benefits

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The question is: Will you control it, or will it control you?

I hope you pick the right side.

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Nofap is forever and ever , if you do this once time after 1000 days , have high risks you back to addiction , Fap is wrong , is imoral and to who Believes in God or Morality is a heavy sin , P is to be destroy forever of our lives , P is a abomination

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Hey buddy listen. Don’t fall for this trap.

Yes you can fap normally without porn if you have overcome your addiction.

Or so I thought !

It happened with me. I was like why on earth should I not fap few days here and there and I did. It made me happy for some time . The pleasure hormones are something ! Cannot deny. The more you give in to that urge the more you would have to do it. It is called the chaser effect. Fapping once leads to fapping multiple times till you fall into the loop.

But apart from that you are cheating your system man. When you fap, your mind is like “he is getting laid” let’s stop investing resources on making him attractive. Your mind thinks you are getting sex. That need is being met. You are highjacking the system. IF YOU ARE A MAN WHO HAS DECIDED TO BE ALONE IN LIFE AND DOES NOT CARE ABOUT SOCIAL SKILLS, FAP.

The next day I touch myself, I feel awkward socially. Every time.

FAPPING IS NOT NORMAL MAN. UNLIKE HOW THE WORLD SHOWS IT TO BE.

TO BE A MAN, TO BE A FUCKING MAN IS TO HABE CONTROL OVER YOUR URGES. I WOULD NOT SAY IT IS NOT HARD. IT IS HARD. IN FACT IT IS LITERALLY THE HARDEST THING YOU WILL EVER DO IN LIFE. BUT IT WILL MAKE YOU REAL. MAKE YOU GREAT. MAKE YOU THE MAN.

Because now that you are not getting the pussy, you would have to be capable of getting the pussy. Grow and become better version of yourself. Same with using social media. Quit satisfying this need with the false social circle. Go out. Get real.

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Thanks, it actually motivated me to reach Day 100 and then self realize.

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To be very honest, now I am understanding the real power of this app,this community. Thanks again everyone for your input. It made so much clear and I promise,I am going to control myself instead getting controlled.

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That’s the spirit brother! That makes you unbreakable! Unstoppable!

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Bro, the goal is to FAP NEVER EVER IN YOUR LIFE. The goal is to grow into fucking awesome badass beasts, who don’t even need to think about fapping. Fapping needs to be below us. Don’t even have thoughts like this. Fapping is a pathetic, useless, wasteful, non rewarding form of momentary pleasure, used by the weak to escape the reality. We are strong men. We don’t FAP, EVER, because WE ARE BETTER THAN THAT!!!

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@TheFinalFrontier, i totally agree with you. Our subconscious will stop trying to motivate us to improve, which for a non fapping person, occurs as a part of his life. The primal instincts motivate fap free people to improve constantly and seek ways to make themselves more and more attractive, to attract mates. Our stupid brains, on the other hand, think all of us are superstuds who’re getting chicks left and right and are always giving them the time of their lives. “I mean, we are ejaculating, and impregnating women all the time, right? Multiple times a day? And aren’t multiple women just begging to fuck us? What more there is to life? Why should we do put any effort at all, we are awesome the way we are!” WRONG!!! GODDAMN FUCKING WRONG! GET THESE LIES OUT OF YOUR NEURAL PATHWAYS! Our dumbass brains think this way, and THAT is the reason why daily fappers invariably fail in life, and nofappers succeed. This is the reason semen retention and delaying gratification is so damn effective. You are absolutely right. This is why fapping sucks. We think it’s healthy, we think it’s normal, but basically we are deceiving ourselves. NEVER FAP AGAIN @anonymous30 , THAT should be our goal.

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Choose the right P in your life.

P1. Pussy
P2. Purpose

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Keep going… Very nice…

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P3. Passion
P4. Perseverance
P5. Productivity
P6. Professionalism
P7. Power
P8. Perfection

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With that mentality the only way ur going to go is down, maybe u haven’t lost smth that is meaningful to u but when u do u will be filled with regret and despair. After some point without even knowing it u will see that u have lost everything that mattered to u to the point where freedom is only thing that u will want. So nofap is not abt the benefits,personal needs,competition or glory, its a journey to expose PMO to what it truly is to urself and others,alongside ur companions by helping each other and finally finding ur true identity by regaining ur freedom.

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It will lead you into a never ending trap it will get worse and worse over time like a roundabout :o: instead of porn try get adrenaline from new hobby.

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Hello @anonymous30
After hearing all the warriors here , I hope to you the high level to take care of your brain while fighting your weakness part

Don’t listen to the sound of devil (HEY COME ON … JUST ONE MORE TIME , ONE MOMENT )
It will not the last , believe me …
Just be honest with yourself , be pointed with your goals …
You will achieve this finally .

You will get the everst :wink::+1:

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One of the things that i love to do these days…

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