What's Your Actual Reason of NoFapping?

We are actually wasting our energy by doing that. When we do it continuously we are more prone to sexual urges easily. Earn a good life, position rest all these feelings are for that moment, there might be arguments in this point that " live the moment happily " yes I do agree but today’s happiness should not lead to regret in the future. Life has got more things to explore. This world is beautiful I am afraid that will I be able to finish seeing this world before I leave this soul :blush::tulip:

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I specifically want to stay from pmo to live a normal life where we must have the power to achieve what we want. Overuse of porn leads to losing control over ourselves, belief over ourselves and creates an emptyness within us.

I feel it has helped me in reducing social anxiety, social awkwardness and more confidence, more openness.

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No fapping for myself
No wasting time and energy , special events … that’s enough
To live the queen life , the peacefully spiritual and thoughts
To handel my movements body , not acting like an addicted one (like something is humiliates me … noo nooo )
To be more controller In My emotional ، to be attracted with no effort and to have the man who deserve bit I have to do my side side first to have a brilliant future with him and for kids too …

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My reason is because i am young and i don’t want my future getting destroyed because of this masturbation habit.

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OMG I can relate so much to this.
I’ve been living my life feeling that I have no control, just letting time pass by. Thank you for posting this, It actually makes me feel a lot better. I have actually been feeling really empowered since I decided to stop PMO.

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Here’s an old thread. You can read it if you are looking for more.
https://rewirecompanion.com/t/why-you-want-to-quit

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After 30 days, I already observed some improvement!

Everything is about your brain plasticity and body sensations.

One advice for you: don’t touch your dick if you want to rediscover the power of your dick.

Never watch again porn! This industry just destroyed your brain and his arousal fonctions. Your perception of women are biased by stupid pixels.

Your dick sensations are burned because fapping.

Time is now your best friend. Be patient!

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Same here… We are all facing same kind of hurdles, the fact is, now are trying to rise from the pit that we have been digging for the past 15 years. More deeper the pit, more uphill struggle it is.

An awesome quote I have seen in this forum is,

“First thing you must do in order to rise, is to stop digging”…

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Hmm, my personal reasons are:

  1. To be more attractive
    (I’m too shy to tell this one ;_;
  2. To be smarter
    I want to retake the throne as the smartest guy in the school, just like when I was younger. The current throne is taken by my crush, and I want to retake that, and assert my domination
  3. To be more creative
    I have decided that drawing is a cool activity and I need lots of creativity. PMO is blocking those and also prevents me from improving my drawing. That’s why I want to stop
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14th day streak,

damn, mind fog is getting worse, i dont know if i am thinking straight ot not. i don’t even know what I’m doing most of the times.

i meditate most of the time, i hear isha foundation divine songs. bearing and beating through the days.

Hustle boys hustle. I am stronger i am not gonna fall prey for the PMO again.

i will become the better version of myself

986 days to go

PEACE :v:

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Hey there

I started nofap, by accident a few years back and noticed small changes in my life was off it and was back to a pmo life. Then it started annoying me to do it everyday or any other day as I didn’t really have a specific need or urge for it to do it. It felt actually less desireable at a time and I would watch porn now and then, but felt disgusted about it as I hate porn I really do and it takes me back to a less desireable time in my life were it all started.

So for me I think I decided to grow up and stop chasing after fantasies and really learn to respect my body, mind and also learn new skills and focus more on religious matters.

Yeah it was like a drug a senseless thing and planted weird and rough ideas in my head and and also braught hurt with flashbacks form the past… So yeah getting over it and stop to feel sorry for myself and be a new me. I have been also very negative in other posts and also indecisive and unsure, but it was more to do like what are the changes now and also some unfamiliar terrain I entered, but getting it on beating my urges kills the beast inside me and knowing I can accomplish something is a great thing influencing the rest of the things I do and adds more motivation and confidence to push myself a bit further each time.

Thanks for the read and good luck stay strong and awesome !

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What is a brain fog?

Just a term i used, when u get severely stressed and your mind is occupied with severe thoughts abiut this and that. When you cant think straight due to that stress amd the thoughts together

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Oh my gosh, I relate with this so much! In 8th grade, my art style was terrible so I took it upon myself to practice art. In freshman year, my art saw major improvement and I would practice every single day. That’s when one of my friends thought I was weird when I said I didn’t know what masturbation was. Once I discovered what it was, I was hooked and by sophomore year, I realized that I was practicing less and less. Porn use is terrible for creativity and I found this out the hard way. Now I’m a senior and I haven’t drawn in almost a month now. Let’s conquer this together and get our creativity back!

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To make remember myself that I have also other parts in my body and the opposite gender has also.

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I also wants to improve

1 main reason for me to improve that I heard from my artist friend that drawing commisions is really profitable.

As I see, for one of his drawing, cost 30$ which is a lot of money at once here. It caught my attention and now I am really interested in drawing. Also considering that I have lots of free time in this COVID-19 condition, I think drawing is a nice activity to keep me from getting bored

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I just want to be happy. At first I just keep no mind and just always bursting this nuts. Making excuses that blowing nuts is healthy and all. But now at college, now I know that everything just going shit and going spiral . My grades are plummeting, can’t decide shit what I’m going to do in life, just like I don’t care everything except porn and sexual thought. And while my friends have their own way, here I am bursting my nuts until my leg gives up. It’s sad, I always know this fact but I just run away from it and keep seeing porn. So, because of that I started this journey

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self control. And mind training to control urges

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Good choice you take there. If you continue to have PMO addiction I think you have a very big chance that you will became like those coomer that doesn’t to anything in their live except jacking off.

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Day 15 people

i feel my body is getting bulkier i can feel my muscles strengthening, when i wake up i can feel the heat produced in my body. i work in my office minute to minute, second to second, i cannot feel any exhaustion.

STILL BRAIN FOG😐

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