You have perfectly recognised the state of addiction.
Many people are not even aware that there are two parts to them, this is why they feel so much guilt and shame for giving in again and again.
There is the real you, the owner and master of your body, mind and spirit. He is the one who is sick and tired of addiction and wants to transform his life. Nofapstar123. He has goals and dreams for his future and ideas on how to make a better life.
Then there is the other guy, a dopamine driven entity within your brain whose sole goal in life is PMO. Yesfapstar123. This guy cares nothing about your goals, dreams, hopes for the future, your loved ones, your health, your finances, your studies or career aspirations. He just wants to watch pornography and masturbate.
This entity in your brain is caused by the brain’s confusion on what’s truly good for you. As far as the brain is concerned, anything that produces high levels of dopamine is great and necessary for your survival. It believes it is saving your life by giving you urges, and it is confused about why you’re trying to stop such a high source of dopamine. It can speak to you in your thoughts and say anything it needs to convince you to relapse. It can change the emotional state of your body, send you flashbacks of past pornographic videos and even make you somewhat ill if necessary. It is deeply rooted because this is a survival mechanism, and a very good one. This mechanism is the reason we are all alive today, but in this situation the brain has got things terribly wrong.
But the reason why the brain has to resort to these tactics is because it cannot make you act against your will. As much as Yesfapstar123 wants to relapse, he needs permission from Nofapstar123. Every single time. You are always in control of your body. He cannot even move your fingers without you giving him control.
This video explains more about the state of addiction and gives you a method to take back your control and end the addiction permanently. Tens of thousands of people have used this method to permanently destroy addictions to drugs, alcohol, gambling, smoking, binge eating and PMO. You can be one of them.