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Would like to hear peoples stories/thoughts if they think they were exposed to young, that believe they couldn’t handle or deal with what they where seeing or doing.
Because i know for sure i was to young and innoncent to be viewing what i was watching.It definitely shaped my brain for the future of addiction and the need to keep watching more obscene content.
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When I first watched ■■■■, I knew that it was wrong, but I didn’t know how addicting it was.
I thought that I could break the habit easily, but no, those first few minutes of â– â– â– â– became hours, and maybe days if you add up all the time I watched â– â– â– â– .
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This was me too bro. If we knew back then what we know now, we never would have started in the first place.
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Without a doubt.
I was 11 years old the first time that I watched pornography. I was playing games late at night on the PC and I clicked on an ad that took me to nudity. I was hooked instantly. Within months I was already looking at extreme content, spending hours late at night and opening dozens of browser windows.
No one should be introduced to sexuality in that way. A generation of children lost their innocence very early in the same way.
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Can say safely that at around age 12. Firstly it was out of curiosity then it became a routine.
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This is the price we pay, brother.
But we’re getting back on track one day at a time
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I want some help…
I have younger bro 18 years old…
I checked his cell phone once and was shocked to see some Gay Dating app…
I talked to him and tried to tell him that its always bad religiously + medically, spiritually , for your health etc etc
He said sorry that it was all just for fun and he will not do that…
This conversation is around 1 year old…
Now today, he’s 18 and i checked his phone and he is telling that he is Top… Want bottom etc
And 2 to 3 people have sent him pics which were deleted…
In 1 chat pic was not deleted and it was pic of a boys booty… With his underwear down
And he had asked my brother to send some money online and get online video call and see fully his body and ass etc…
One is telling him that they have free space to do sex etc…
Just come there
I am in a bit stress because watching ■■■■or masturbating is common in this age except for some lucky ones…
But he is diving in some really bad field…
I do not want to directly talk on this topic otherwise he will feel ashamed and will mind that why i checked his phone…
What is the better way to deal this moment …
I do not want him to become addict
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Same brother…
We didn’t know even about phone addiction… which is killing our time now…more than 6/8 hours…At that time our parents were using small keypad phones…I used to play small small games…then slowly internet came into existence…then smartphones(Really smart)…
Now I am playing with my life, future,career, Hereafter,my parents hopes,etc 
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Sounds like you’re a really great brother for wanting to protect him from potentially dangerous people, self-destructive and addictive behaviour. What’s cool is you’re also not judging him for his sexuality (sexuality is a separate thing from what people choose to do with it; as in, either engage in healthy or unhealthy behaviour). As a gay person myself, I would say just encourage him to look after himself and not compromise his own physical and emotional well-being just for the sake of trying to fit into a group of people on the same boat. I know those apps are quite toxic (because i’ve been on them before) and more often than not they leave you feeling so lonely and torn, completely opposite to the companionship that one is seeking. But there are many other places to find good people, good friendships and relationships.
If he is religious you may talk with him religiously, otherwise as a big brother try to tighten the rope of his pants either forcefully or softly.
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I know him very well…
It is not like he is gay or bi…
It is just that he was a good boy…
I know him…
He was religious too…
And our home is also religious , atleast not liberals…
I know some of his friends …
They downloaded one of these apps…
And they were all talking in just funny way…
No real sexual talk…
I was also in the same room…
And they were even showing me that see …
We r doing fun…
At that time they were just talking normal things…
Nothing sexual…
Still i asked him to leave these useless things…
Its a waste of time…
But i think so that his inner mind loved some ■■■■things…
And he just started loving to get naked and see others naked…
In those days… I remember
He was video calling with others … I could just see their time durations when he sleeps…
So those calls were mostly of less than a minute…
But 1, or 2 of 10 minutes…
He was just a innocent guy…
And his exposure to such apps have made him a bad one…
Then, when i scolded him…
He left those things…
Now again i saw all that…
I think so just like we are addictes to p()rn
He is addicted or is in process to see something live something new…
Today when i checked his phone
He had conversations…
In one… A guy sent him his 5 nudes pics
All in different poses…
1 on bed
1 standing
1 of anus hole
And all were showing his ass…
He was bottom
And my bro was asking him for just one video call…
But the other person wanted to see mybro’s face first and then they were almost ready to meet somewhere and do sex…
But the other guy refused after seeing my bro’s pic…
The pics was deleted so i cant see whether it was just face or full… With clothes or naked etc…
Another one had few seconds of video.call…
I am now really thinking of again talking to him…
But i just do not want him to feel ashamed
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Can anyone share some real content about this type of shit…
In which this type of addiction is explained
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Brother think about it is it natural?
He is in worst phase of pornography
And you are saying that you don’t want make him feel ashamed
What if he will indulge himself in it
May Allah save us from this filthy deed
Talk to him make him realise what type of thing he is investing
Otherwise you can hardly save him from upcoming damage Inshaallah
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Its called hocd im pretty sure, its your brain needing more harsher and harsher content to get the same rush as when you first saw p0rn. I know the NoFap® talk about it in depth and people explain there stories there.
Ive dealt with a similiar problem (Not Gay Men though) where i ended up watching and doing fetish activities,but once done and thought about what i was doing i was disgusted.It’s like drugs,always wanting to find a way to get the best high as possible.
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