Trying something different

This is starting to get old.

I just relapsed.

Google Images again.

Time to make next week fap free.

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Heyho !

Sorry to hear thatā€¦

Keep reading you will be fine

Bests!

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I dont think you should get hard any other time other than the mornings,what say?

Monk mode should be followedā€¦but I am sorry to ask,but genraly what do u think shud be the correct number?

What should I be reading, @SirTryHard?

The easy peasy method

What do you mean by correct number?

And what is monk mode to you?

Bests

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@SirTryHard monk mode:
no unnecessary thoughts wrt to man vs woman ā€¦or thinking abt someone or some kinda scenario which I fapped on(I didnā€™t watch porn, but fapped on useless incidents like a male clothless in front of women etcā€¦[which are unfortunately very often portrayed in movies and these sexual assaults are taken as a joke :frowning: ā€¦)( only 5 seconds are allowed)
no youtube unnecessary watching, amongst othersā€¦
correct no.- allowable number of erecti$ns! What do you think would be the right number for this, other than the one in the mornings? I am not sexually excited by morning erections[idk if anyone is]!

@Chelsea_Burnett

I find your answer informative and useful.

In another topic, here is my November

Tell me what you think

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Mate, from you I loved 13- 18 Nov, could you not show me 20-30? :slight_smile: Would love to see that!
Is there anything else specific you are asking? coz I didnā€™t quite understand!

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Because today is the 21st. 21 to 30 hasnā€™t completed yet

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No I dont think I am clearā€¦
I am challenging you to show me a screen shot where your calendar is clean from 20th to 30th

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So be clean to the end of the month and show that

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Tbh i do not think there should be a limit on that.
In my personal experienceā€¦ The farther you are along your no FAP streak the less pointless boners you getā€¦
However you can not really control thatā€¦ If you are excitedā€¦ You are excitedā€¦ So it is not really your thought I have had to struggle with pointless boners in calss and study sessions where nothing even actively stimuated me it was just circulation xD but I did not do anything with that so that was fine xD
Having a boner is only slightly related to PMO
If you read studies or self Reports quite a few PMOers do not even get real boners anymore etcā€¦

So when rebooting and going the noPMO way you can have all the boners You want as long as you do not actively seek them via (porn/fantasy/ or M)

However that is m personal opinion.

@Vortexkicker your nofap breaks are getting bigger i hope that you can see that quitting is definitely possible however also be aware that if you FAP only a couple time a week or only a week the less you FAP the more"precious" the sessions become ignore that and keep to the goal of NoPMO for life :slight_smile:
Also read the book yey

Bests

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As usual, Iā€™m updating my progress.

I am at 1 day and 22 hours at 5:35 a.m.

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Hi. I donā€™t have any high streak, and I have a question for you.
What exact change did you expect to experience?

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Not sure what your expectations are for an answer, but in experience, I learned about things here in this app that I never knew before 2020.

Iā€™m glad to have joined this app.

I guess my only major expectation for an experience may have been to heal from this and attract the women I wish I could have.

The first part is possible and can be definite.

The 2nd part is unlikely, but maybe my time here can help me build confidence.

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Update, Iā€™m at 3 days 9 hours as of November 23rd 4:35 pm.

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3 days 22 hours and I relapsed

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sorry to read abotu your relapse. what happened?
also regarding you not geting the woman you want there are 2 things 1st PMO has a significant impact on what you find desirable in woman so you might notice a shift in waht you vlaue if you keep your streak going. secon you should really check out epigenetics and the power of our thoughtsā€¦ as in it is total BS that there is sth that you really want and can not getā€¦ if you really want it i guarantee that there is a way for you to get /attract itā€¦ that is hwo this world works

beware incoming rant... do not read when you feel "weak

. it just depends on your drive and resourcefullness how ever if your desire is jsut a simple wish with little substance than it obviously is sth that seems impossibleā€¦

every thing that you seriously commit to is possible. damn if you coimmit to becoming a milonair for real you can definetly do that. if you want to honestly date supermodels you can also do that xD it sounds impossible now but if you commit to searching for a way it definetly is xD the question is do YOU really want/desire it or do you just ā€œthinkā€ that yau might want it but are not prepared to commit and pay the price.

that is the thingā€¦ if we really want sth we ahve to put in effort and focus that effort and focus will not be avilbile for other things eg. games, PMO etc xD so that is why we think that this stuff is simpossible. e.g. i am pretty sure that you could get *every girl/boy to consider you attractiveā€¦ there are exercises to do, beauty regiments and diets to uphold, clothes/accesories to buy/wear also you could get plastic surgery the only things you need for that is 1. knwodlge what they like, 2. knowledge how to get ressources(time,money,effort,connections) 3. doing that stuff and not to get distractedā€¦ all perfectly doable this might be an awkward example but all of these things are doableā€¦ if you think them trhoguh yo can do it in maybe 5 yearsā€¦ easy peasyā€¦ same goes for other goals maybe 10 or 15 yearsā€¦

we humans tend to overestiamte what we can do in 1 year but to underestimate what we can achiee in 5-7-10 years!!!

i know you feel hopeless and pathetic right now but that is your subjective perception NOW it does not have to be that way in the futureā€¦ you are the only person in your life that limits youā€¦ all otherthigns are up to chanceā€¦ your behaviour is notā€¦ that you ahve 100% control overā€¦

s yeah i finished my rantā€¦ sorry for thatā€¦ i am feeling super depressed and had to chanell it some whereā€¦ and when i read what you belief it kinda triggered meā€¦

bests

@SirTryHard

Your rant was fine. I relapsed because it was 5 am and I wanted P. I seemed to have missed it and then Mā€™d to it.

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