Well for one, everyone has the same patterns. Even people who seem to act without thinking. So I’m not sure what you are trying to refer to. It’s different to different degress for some, but that just depends on their emotional intelligence. It may be lower or higher in some.
Another thing is, if you can scroll up to get the context, I was referring with regards to talking excessively which can sometimes lead to rudeness especially people who talk a lot online thinking there are no consequences. I don’t think you are one of them( I thought you would’ve realised that). You are quiet both in real life and online (generally, you don’t post excessively or unnecessarily) so I think you could have understood that message wasn’t referring to everyone in that sense.
Yes I read texts above. I guess I may have misunderstood it in some way, because my blunt attitude does come off rude and hurtful to people. That’s true both online and in real.
But I got it now, you’re referring to the gossiping type people, who may go and cross limits. And I don’t gossip, so I’m not one of them.
I do have some problems with that. But it will become a different topic altogether.(maybe it’s due to my ADHD. I don’t know. There are some people who got really impressed with me by talking once. And there are some others who have been the exact opposite. And all along I’ve just been myself. I don’t know why some people like me so much and others don’t. I can’t distinguish. I don’t have the understanding of social dynamics.)
