OOO day 11 checking-in
Streak 14 days
Bro I hope your are doing, letβs get up and start again
OOO day 11 checking in guys
Bloody Sweet!
I failed but Iβm fighting back harder
Starting today! We shall succeed in this war against β β β β and masturbation.
I would be more sensitive to your concern if we werenβt in a thread based on a war where we regularly figuratively talk of being wounded, dying, and surviving in it. Even added quotations to make it obvious. I hope youβre well!
Good point. It feels like that. While I havenβt been successful for a long long time, I would mentioned the words of my guru, Gangaji:
The war only exists when youβre fighting over what to do or what not to do. If you stop the war inside and find the motivators coming from what allows us to engage in this behavior and the reasons why we donβt, we can sit in stillness and find a space of clarity. In that space we can surrender to the war and decide to be free.
All to say, the war doesnβt have to be never-ending. We just need to figure out how to stop and move on. If you try to hold the part of yourself thatβs willing to engage as prisoner, it will still be stuck in yourself still. You must discover freedom and then find the power to say βno, Iβm actually doneβ. Then, the warring ends and you are a new person.
We can all do it, even you. Especially you.
Day 11 check in
People hate what they donβt understand
Can you add me to this group s.c.- chnvsc
Who, said ill leave im back and for this reason:
You know I saw the reason why. And if I never found the reason why I would of never made it back. I found out women donβt care about us anymore and by how evolution is going the majority of women will be with other women. Iβll say I wonβt look for love anymore im done with all of this im done with all of these stupid love thoughts.
Everyone will say that ill leave again I can understand why but Iβll tell you. I saw the sad truth and now I am not leaving no-fap i will never fap again and i promise you this is the real time ill stay here forever.
The sad truth is: Women donβt care about us anymore they will make us be in pain for all of our entire life and it has been happening to me but im done im officially done.
Iβll remain a virgin forever.
My mind wonβt make me suffer again I will never make myself suffer again because the pain is gone now and forever.
Now I donβt want women in this times and never will.
Since I know the real truth my mental health wonβt make me suffer again. Because I now know the truth.
You can give me hate all you guys want but this time im not joking I swear im not joking. I was wrong I was stupid I made mistakes all because I thought women where the way out.
But they are never the way out you are the way out you are the one who chooses what you want to do.
Throw me garbage I receive it throw me everything I need it. Why because I am a loser. I am a loser for always failing and saying Im going to quit, terrible mind set. It was getting me crazy.
No-fap wasnβt the problem.
Women where the problem. And im going to rise that virgin population as im one of them.
The only way I found out was: I meet this girl online and guess what she was bisexual. Went on to fap. Guess what I found the truth.
The truth that was hidding for years and I never saw it, the truth was there and I never seen it.
I found the truth.
Day 11 check in keep going guys!
Day 0.
I am totally a new person now.
Whatβs your sharing code?
f7vg8s this is my code
OOO day 12 checking-in
Streak 15 day
Change and self-improvement is a frustratingly slow process, but I recently heard one important word of advice about change: success is in endurance during journey. No matter how hopelessly irreparable we think we are, we can rise and reach heights we never thought possible for ourselves. Stay strong bros.
Good to see you still going strong man.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings.
I will however say that women are not the problem and never have been. Women are just women just like men are men. Women can hurt other people and so can men. You give way too much power to women, the idea of what a woman is to you, and how they can set you back.
The truth is, you need to be in your own power. When you do this you will not find yourself becoming a victim to manipulative or immature women. The real problem is the giving up of your own power to something outside of yourself. You are autonomous, powerful, in need of your own evolution. Every piece of energy you give to blaming another entity is just a piece of power youβre giving up away from your natural core self.
It kind of seems like youβre just heartbroken or depressed or down. Pick up, clarify, and rock on!