Hi I am a 26 year old virgin who just took an owe to never fap again. But the sexual urges are natural and would not go away. Porn and fapping are not even an option anymore. I am not a virgin. But I lost my virginity to a prostitute out of desperation a year ago. Basically I have never had a girlfriend.
Do you think we should keep on improving ourselves or also deliberately go out and meet women ? I don’t want to waste my time approaching women. But don’t want to be a loner either. The idea of arranged marriage is disgusting to me. But I want to find a partner on my own. Should I just go with the flow or take proper steps lile going out, learning Pickup or hiring a dating coach ?
NoFappers are beasts !! Advise me.