I doubt I am bringing anything new to the table. To the contrary, I’m just another elephant in the lifeboat weighing everyone else down.
That’s how it feels.
So I started jerking off when I was 14. It was the late 80s.I was on holiday. The orgasms were impossibly intense.
30 years later the orgasms often last longer but feel less intense and take more work to get there.
So I need to stop because every relationship I ever had with a woman failed because I could not translate what I do solo with my own hand into something that works in bed with a partner.
The guys know what I mean.
She rides you on top? You keep slipping out of her and apologising as you can’t stay hard and she grinds you to a pulp anyway. She let’s you throw her on her back? Good luck with that. I can’t feel anything in any position.
I wouldn’t mind a partner who just wants oral. But 99% of women say they love a good tongue but secretly also want the D as well. And Certainly no woman on earth really enjoys blow jobs. But some are good at faking in gratitude for good cunnilingus.
All the old arguments are true.
Masturbation can ruin intimacy as it spoils the magic.
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