Subtle forms of Non P Peeking

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This is one of the topics I’ve been wanting to address it. I have a good no fap streak like 70s now. But I got into a bad habit of peeking almost everything.

Not peeking to P , but non P videos and pictures. Now the thing is Non P peeking can come in many forms. Some of them are the examples I constantly peek

  1. Yoga - I do yoga almost everyday. I always try to improve my PR just like in gym. And sometimes I try to learn challenging poses and stuff. Then there will be some women who have a different intention doing sexualized poses to intentionally trigger people. I didn’t find any yoga instructors offline here.

  2. Reaction Channels - If you see things like " American React " things and all , there is a minor probability that there will be women with triggered clothing.

  3. Real people - I study at library to keep myself focused on exam days. There you have a probability that you can see some women with trash clothes. My mind gets screwed up sometimes because of this

  4. DP in WhatsApp - Again the same as earlier

And so on. The list goes endless. When it comes to my 1st point Yoga , there are times in which I actually learn with an intention to study but sometimes with an intention to peek.

The same goes for Reaction channels , with intention for entertainment and sometimes peeking.

All these are like probability . The thing is brain play with this probability and mess with my head. When my brain says " Study Yoga " . I really don’t know what should be my response.

When you look at things like smoking, alcohol and drug addiction. Its straightforward even though it might be difficult. You just don’t use those substances. But this peeking can come in all forms directly and indirectly. So I am confused regarding this.

I need help :pray:

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I never have seen women in trash clothes in real life. In our state, girls wear decent clothes. :sweat_smile:
I never triggered by this

About dp : I never triggered yet.

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I suggest you to delete your youtube account. And again create a new one. Don’t delete whole Google account.

Delete your Pinterest, Instagram, Twitter account.

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The thing is I get triggered over everything . The women with trash clothes also like have trash dp :face_with_head_bandage:

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Google Account > Data & Privacy > Delete Google Services > Delete Youtube

If you have youtube premium , then premium will be lost.

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I understood what you meant. So that things like these dont enter my feed.

But its different. Lets me give you an example since you know yoga as well.

Assume you don’t know Shirshasana. You want to learn it. You type that on YouTube.

There will be good instructors and instructors with a different purpose. You can say that you can reject the latter. But you can’t get it unless you click that video. YT feed works more on veiws rather than a proper video.

So can’t say which comes first. Majority of the times , its the latter ones because there are perverts increasing its veiws.

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Now this is a very big problem for the modern world. Everything that surrounds us is sexualized. Maybe giving up the internet can reduce triggers, but what about in today’s world without the internet? And even if by some miracle you managed to build your life without the Internet, then on the street we are surrounded by sexualized women who dress vulgarly, billboards advertising underwear, etc.

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I was just watching YouTube and I came across a short which said even alcohol and drug abuse is below in rank compared to P addiction.

And in this age of hyper sexualized media it becomes all the more difficult.

It doesn’t matter in which form it exists what matters is your intention. You can be surrounded by half naked girls all around but if you don’t look at them it’s not peeking.

Your mindset is your greatest weapon don’t forget that.

But obviously you need to spend lesser time fighting triggers by being away from them.

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Moreover, another problem is our physiology. Sexual desire is natural for us compared to alcohol or drug addiction, which are artificially synthesized by people. Therefore, PMO addiction is stronger in a certain sense

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Brother, you are on 70+ days. You do not want to go backwards.

Peeking has been the downfall of many great warriors on this journey. It is the worst thing we can do. People wonder how does someone relapse after 180 days or 2 years or 5 years. It is always peeking. No one who has gone that long decides to instantly load up a pornography website, it is a gradual decline due to consuming more and more sexual non P images and videos, just like you are doing.

As we advance in our time away from pornography, the temptations change. We have gone long enough without looking at hardcore pornography, that the temptation tells us, “Look at something softer. Look at that girl in her bikini or that woman in yoga pants. Watch that movie with that bold scene you enjoyed before, that’s not pornography. Check out Instagram models, Instagram would ban them if they cross the line so the platform has to be safe.”

These are all lies brother. The voice in your head is building up your arousal and sexual desire until your streak feels dirty and you’re so thirsty for pornography that you go straight back to nudity again. Stop asking yourself, “Does this count as pornography,” and instead ask yourself whether it is safe for you. And you know the answer.

Avoid all of these things just like you avoid nudity - they all lead to darkness. Treat all women like mothers and sisters, the only exception is your future wife. We were perverts in the past, staring at women and undressing them with our eyes all the time. We have to kill that old perverted version of ourselves. There are male yoga videos online, you can find them if you struggle with the female videos. And there are many women pretending to be yoga instructors, doing seductive poses with a link to their Onlyfans in the bio, so don’t fall prey to their tactics. When you encounter such women in real life, do not look at them. If you see them, turn your head. If you find this difficult, look at their face rather than their body - this humanises them again and you see them as family rather than body parts for your sexual pleasure.

As men, we focus on what is in our power. A man’s focused attention transforms the world around him. We cannot stop the sexualised billboard ads or the ads online or women from dressing in little clothing, but we can rise above our animal desires and look away. They say that sex sells, but that won’t be the case if we stop buying. And when we are not consuming such images with our eyes, when we are fully determined to never let anything leads us back to PMO, the urges become minimal and the journey is very easy.

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No wrong videos in my feeds ever unless I intentionally search.

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I know majority of men are still in shithole and some are beyond repair. But some people like us have the chance to be uncommon among the uncommon.

Yeah, I am saying words of david goggins. Sometimes I wish there were stronger urges so that I can callous my mind more.

Just like I wished for colder winters to test my real strength.

We need to embrace what life is putting in front of us, enough of living like a scaredy mf cat.

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I am listening to David Goggins right now :grin::fire:

That is the spirit brother, let’s see the absolute worst these urges can throw at us, so we can prove to ourselves we are always stronger.

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First of all. Thanks for your detailed reply. I just want to share my opinion on some of your thoughts.

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Obviously. My biggest streaks has always been destroyed by this peeking .

If I get those thoughts, I do have the willpower to eliminate them by God’s Grace. But its more like a double edge sword. For eg , Reaction channels

Assume you saw a fantastic fight scene and now you want to see a reaction of that fight scene. In this moment , your intention is entertainment. But the one who is reacting to this wear trash clothes and now I lost self control. My intention now is stimulation.

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Personally, all the reaction videos I watch are made by men. If some girl is poorly dressed in the video, I have no business watching it. How can I look at my sister undressed? I have no anger against her, we are all on a journey returning back to God. But I don’t need to watch her video.

Decide what is more important to you. Seeing her reaction video, or your streak that represents how far you’ve escaped from the dark addiction that has ruined all of our lives. If you can be comfortable with never watching pornography again after the insane levels of dopamine induced stimulation and sexual pleasure we used to get from it, you can definitely live without some 5 minute fight clip where the girl is showing cleavage. Go watch something else brother.

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I am not even 1% of him but because of him I have accessed the sleeping beast inside me sometimes.

Like when I studied 2.5 hrs continuously, did 8 push-ups in one go. I have never done these things in my life so how come I could do it suddenly?

Because this got woken up :point_down:

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The inner 9 tails is coming out bro :100::fire::muscle:

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Yes I get that. But whenever I am in that moment. My brain plays probability. Its more like watching her reaction as well as focusing on perverted stuff.

After the reaction , my brain says you peeked, your streak is dirty . My brain is fully stimulated and all and just go for peeking mode unless I get some senses back in between.

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Bro is trying to guilt trip :skull:

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