M27 here, been fapping (with P) since somewhere in my puberty…but I’d like to change my life for the better as well. I have a gf for 5 years and I told her about the situation some time ago and she is understanding, but I still could not escape it so far. Definetely notice the lack of sexual energy and lust in phases where I watch more P…of course that affects her as well and this isnt what I really want in the end.
Current streak is 3d (with 6d before), felt some urges today and it felt rather difficult to withstand. Especially when I tend to get hungry and bored. Homeoffice made things not easier…
@nik.her
Your group description and honesty sounded promising, is there still place?
Successfully completed may challenge and its been a great journey so far this is my highest streak ever since i am doing no fap i tried many time but fail hope i will not slip this time and continue to move up and up
Nofap becomes easy if ur distracted by others things and if u keep urself busy its a very simple game and try to level up in this game ,its just a 3 step process
S1-find ur weakness
S2- Identify how u can improve on them
S3- Then work on them to improve them
Hey guys just, checking in on my day 1 completion and wanted to give you a little backround/short summary of my story and current situation. Started master bating early on as a child and discovered porn around the age of 14. Been an addict ever since. My longest no fap streak was 2 months at the age of 17. In that short span of time, I morphed into a different person in my junior year of high school and people noticed the benefits I had of which where very significant. It’s been 13 years since I’ve been able to keep a streak that long. Many relapses, failures and negative outcomes as result of letting my addiction control me. Although I’ve had many blessings in the years passed as well (getting marred to a wonderful woman) My addiction has affected all aspects of my life including my marriage. It gets complicated too. My wife has a very low libido which means she has very little desire for sex. This has made it difficult for me not to resort back to PMO. Although we genuinely love each other very much, the lack of sexual intimacy has definitely felt like a contributing factor in my battle with NoFap. A toxic mindset I tend to have before I relapse is to justify the act and blame the reason of my addiction on my wife. I wouldn’t say that to her face, i’m just telling you that’s what I’m saying in my thoughts. As I try to become more engaged with reality, I know that the answer to beating NoFap, is not my wife having sex with me, but rather a matter of exercising self control and possessing the courage to care for myself that much, in order to come out stronger on the other side. Looking forward to fighting in this month of June and sharing my success and failures with you!
Man I completely feel you, that sounds very close to my own experience with PMO. I really appreciate the fact you shared your story with us, now you better share your successes and struggles with us too, we ll get far my brother welcome in the group
I guess it ll take a lot of mental strength to reach that point, my goal is to accept my urges, being aware of them, and control them. I got urges in these 5 days, but I managed in a chill way to control them, I got big goals in my mind here and I won t fail em
I feel like so far we got very similar stories in this group, PMO is not being positive for any of us for different reasons, let s keep it in mind anytime we get triggers and urges that would make us fall down. Thanks for sharing your story, I wanna rewire my brain so badly, I wanna see you sharing as well some success story at the end of this month, I am sure we can do this let s keep in mind the big picture and we ll make it
Everyone, good job so far. Already being here in this group it means we want to better ourselves. Anytime you feel some urges, just drop a message here and one of us could be there immediately to support eachother. Let s go
Day 1 completed and day 02 started. 
