Hi guys , I want to share my story with you, because it took me 12 years of trial and error to figure out how to stop porn once for all.
I am completely cured now and I have a wife . I only had 1 girlfriend in my entire life prior to having a wife and curing myself from porn. So I was pretty fucked up in my mind, yes! But now it’s gone.
I started to look at porn at 15 years. When I got to 18 years this is when I realized I had to stop that, but I was not able to stop to my great surprise, I had become an addict !
I then did what most people try to do; every time I had urges, I would try to go for a walk or do sports or do anything else that could possibly keep my mind busy while the urge is crying at me. It failed miserably.
I also took the time to identify all my trigger point, you know the things that activates the urges. For me, it was going to bed, seeing the picture of a nice-looking woman on Facebook, being alone on my own was also a trigger.
But even by knowing my trigger points, it was not enough. Because when my brain was craving porn, I was not able to fall asleep at all, it could take up to 4 hours to fall asleep. And even when I was falling asleep, I used to wake up in the middle of the night with my hand on my dick beginning the process of masturbation. The addiction was so embedded within my unconscious.
So what happened is that on September 2021, I was 27 years old at that time, I started to use some new tools and a totally new approach to cure my porn addiction. A friend introduced me to a process called ‘‘self-forgiveness’’ and also another tool that allows me to reprogram my unconscious mind.
I used those 2 tools for maybe 3 to 4 hours a day for 7 days. After those 7 days the first thing that struck me was that my mind demons had disappeared !
You know that little voice in your head that is constantly telling you how good it would be to watch porn or to masturbate over and over again with a lot of persistence and energy until you succumb to it. That is what I call a mind demon, you can call it backchat, the little voice, or whatever you want to call it.
Well, that little voice demon was no more there
When that happened I felt like I could finally do things differently because that voice inside of me that was keeping me addicted to porn was gone. So 4 weeks after that moment I got into a relationship with a woman. Keep in mind that before that moment, I only had 1 girlfriend in my entire life, and it lasted for like a month.
So me and my new girlfriend moved together, and now I will marry her this summer. We already purchased our ring!!
The point of writing this whole story was to give you the awareness that it is possible to cure yourself from porn, when you have the right tools and the proper support, it is possible.
If any of you need help or support or just want to chat with me or ask me questions, feel free to write to me on the forum.