Hey guys, I am enjoying my nofap journey and I really believe this is a benefit for a man that I want to continue for the rest of my life.
I was on 32 day streak and going strong. Urges here and there but I kept busy and fought them off. I had a date on Monday night and I believe because of the benefits of nofap/retention and a new refined approach to women, I ended up having s3x on the first date. It was amazing and I busted 4 times.
Now my question is… obviously I’m no longer on a semen retention streak because I ejaculated. But I consider myself still on my nofap 35 day streak because even tho I nuttted it was through s3x and not PMO. I just reset my retention clock to Monday but kept my nofap on track. So how do you guys differentiate between these two?
It all depends on your objective, I personally am on a monk mode streak (meaning no porn, masturbation, sex etc) but some people are just here to stop masturbation and the use of porn.
Sex with a real person is not the same as masturbating alone.
To summarize, if your objective was semen retention you lost. If it wasn’t you’re clean.
Yeah i agree, it depands on you.
You tell us,
Were you doing nofap to f*** a women ?
That makes perfect sense. My beginning objective was just to break my porn and masturbation addiction and to improve my sexual mental health. I think I’m well on my way there. So yes I’m in the clear with nofap still. I might consider a longer retention period soon though. Thanks for the perspective.
You’re not in NO PMO anymore, but in NO PM.
An alternative, if you want going for semen retention, is to have sex without ejaculation: Karezza Method for example.
After my 90-day NO PMO challenge, I’ll do this journey : NO PM + sex without ejaculation.
Maybe I’ll give that a try too. Thanks