S3x but still on nofap streak?

Hey guys, I am enjoying my nofap journey and I really believe this is a benefit for a man that I want to continue for the rest of my life.
I was on 32 day streak and going strong. Urges here and there but I kept busy and fought them off. I had a date on Monday night and I believe because of the benefits of nofap/retention and a new refined approach to women, I ended up having s3x on the first date. It was amazing and I busted 4 times.
Now my question is… obviously I’m no longer on a semen retention streak because I ejaculated. But I consider myself still on my nofap 35 day streak because even tho I nuttted it was through s3x and not PMO. I just reset my retention clock to Monday but kept my nofap on track. So how do you guys differentiate between these two?

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It all depends on your objective, I personally am on a monk mode streak (meaning no porn, masturbation, sex etc) but some people are just here to stop masturbation and the use of porn.
Sex with a real person is not the same as masturbating alone.
To summarize, if your objective was semen retention you lost. If it wasn’t you’re clean.

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Yeah i agree, it depands on you.
You tell us,
Were you doing nofap to f*** a women ?

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That makes perfect sense. My beginning objective was just to break my porn and masturbation addiction and to improve my sexual mental health. I think I’m well on my way there. So yes I’m in the clear with nofap still. I might consider a longer retention period soon though. Thanks for the perspective.

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You’re not in NO PMO anymore, but in NO PM.

An alternative, if you want going for semen retention, is to have sex without ejaculation: Karezza Method for example.

After my 90-day NO PMO challenge, I’ll do this journey : NO PM + sex without ejaculation.

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Maybe I’ll give that a try too. Thanks

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