Hey Guys and Gals,
I´m doing NoFap for all its benifits. One of them being able to enjoy “normal” sex or sex that isn´t disturbed by porn habits. Also to be able to see a girl for who she is and not just as means if sadisfaction for me.
After a long relationship, which was partially influenced and destroyed by my bad habits which make me even more committed on my No Fap Journey, i want to get to know new women.
I think approaching women in real life is the way to go, but i also tried dating apps. But sometime I relapse after using these apps. It might be because women present themselfs in a sexy way and it totally lacks the feeling of normal social interaction.
Are these Apps like a ultra soft version of porn? It´s similar in many ways. You see lots of attractive people and you can click trough their profiles etc. you don´t have to interact with them on a meaningful level etc.
I´ve gone on a few dates, but often the person is very different, from what i percieved online. And i get the feeling that the return on the investment of time on these apps is shit.
I think i have to go out more and meet girls that way, rather then getting reward system hacked by these apps.
What are your thoughts?
Also sometimes i relapse after talking to a beatuiful women in real life. I feel like an animal. I´m triggered to easily.
I am on day 4 now. Longest streak was 16 days.
Maybe i should stay abstitent of all forms of porn and dating apps.