10/4/2022
Yesterday slept at at 4 am, woke up at 8 am,
I watched some Netflix while having breakfast,
I tried cleaning up my room a bit, listened to the radio for a little, at 12;00-15:00 I slept. Then had lunch ,
Spend some time on my phone, practiced piano and that’s it for the day.
I did communicate with anyone today, I had lunch with my father, but like the longest conversation was, pass me the salt,
I relapsed on porn. I’m not proud of it.
my stomach was hurting me a bit, while and a bit after relapsing I felt better, it didn’t last long though.
Tomorrow I have a gym session in the morning, just one on one sessions.
Other than that I doubt I’ll talk to any human, maybe my parents but not that of a conversations.
In some countries the biggest sentence is death sentence. In my country it’s to be locked in isolated cell. I don’t know how I got here, but I am not talking with people much, I call some, I try to go out, but nothing working. Thank God my grandmother love me or I will have no one to visit and talk to.
if someone read parts of my diary or other posts,
I’m sorry for the negativity, it won’t solve any problems. And crying and being depressed, won’t do any good. It’s like giving up. I don’t know how to make my life better, but we shall not give up anyway.
a little update, pmo journey related. I need to do things for the right reasons.
If I quit pmo, I want to do it for myself, part of me starting feeling like I’m doing it because I’m homosexual. But in fact this shouldn’t matter.
I saw my sexuality may cause me problems with my family and friends, basically the community, and where ever I go this will be the case.
So back then, 12 months ago, I felt like I have to either give up my people or give up sexuality. And I thought nothing worth fighting for, so I gave up pmo, because I thought if I quit porn masturbation sex, my sexuality will have no impact on my life, and then I can still be part of my community.
It turns out I was wrong. I’l never be close of I hide part of me. I should quit pmo , but I should do it for myself, despite the community, they don’t have a say in this. I want to quit pmo, but I have another goal, which is to be able to talk about my sexuality in front of people if the topic brought up, I don’t want to act strange I don’t want to hide things from them.
One guy asked me how do you know you’re gay, I said we men have a compass between our legs that works and aims only to our North. Lol
So these are my orientations, wether I act on it or do whatever or quite forever pmo, these are still my orientations, and will affect every part of my life and personality.
I want to do things for the right reasons, only then we will have the power to fight for it and last. Have a genuine reason.