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2000$ :flushed::flushed::flushed::flushed::flushed: thats equal to 1,65,886.00 Indian Rupee

Man, respect to your mom.

Damm man, I knew you had bad time but I didn’t knew this.:cry::cry:

I believe one day you will also be a successful man andy

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Thanks bro believe in yourself you got this don’t worry.

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Everything takes time, but we will all achieve it one day.

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Everyone could actually be popular and rich. The problem they lose their dream and hope. So it makes about only 3-2 billion rich or sucessful people in this world.

So look for your passion cause you can. Don’t give up or you’ll be like the 6 or 5 Billion people you got this.

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By the looks of today successful people might be about 1B. Millionaries 1M and billionaries 2k.

Making the rest of the population 7B. If you give up on your dream then try to be successful in a way. You could also have your popular hotdog stand and be with 1k and not millionarie but happy.

Sucess is not about money. But following what you like.

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You know they say success is wealth wealth bring happiness but the true fact is money can only solve money problems not everything it cannot solve your health mental state your peace
Thats y you can have less money but with a peace of mind and become more happier than billionaires

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You wrote this bro @xevo ??
This is the best shit I’ve read in a while…

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When I said successful this is what I mean. It’s not always money but a family and friends who are with you. Success also applies for the happiness of people around you and money. That’s why it is better than money.

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For me success is waking up in the morning and feeling that urge to tackles this day without worrying about anything and having peace of mind

Not waking up in the morning and saying oh fuck another day and doing the sam shit that makes your life suck

It doesn’t matter if i have a rolls royce what matters is can i provide for my family friends and relatives in need without worrying where the money comes from this the time i would consider my self successful person

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I heard from a guy called luke

For me i would suggest to listen to this podcast man mainly on youtube they contain a lot of. Information that you would never get

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@anon30406793 read rhis bro???

Listen You only watch porn because of 2 things 1)you have free time meaning that you have nothing to do this is because instead of doing something else you crave for porn because of free time 2)high dopamine since you watch porn you dopamine level inceases meaning that you want to something that can release that dopamine since you daily activity can’t release that much dopamine you start looking for porn to satisfy that How do you escape it
1)you have to understand why you watch porn many of porn addicts do that because they want to masturbate to it first thing is get rid of porn its more danger than pure masturbation don’t watch porn if you get the urge and tou can’t resist relapse without porn
2)if the urge is pure masturbation then cold shower , working out , going for a walk , spend time with close ones Helps to escape it But if its porn then you have to block your phone for almost 30 min Meditate 15 min until the urge fades away

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I heard this from mike tyson where he was asked his life in prison he said that he had the best 3 yrs of his life he had nothing to worry and had the piece of mind saying he would choose this over 30 million cash on his fight night
Many celebs rappers were visiting him that y he emphasised on peace of mind

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I read all your message and advice. I will try my best. I didn’t go for porn today even though I had a strong urge. Now I have no urge. It gradually vanished in an hour.

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:hugs::raised_hands: Good to hear that you are back on track and for the comeback

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Holy shitt dude
I don’t remember reading anything as influential as this in months

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We all have thre same aim here n its our duty to carry the recruited and the wounded one :saluting_face::saluting_face::saluting_face:

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Here’s a list of the bullshit we tend to tell ourselves before we relapse, and why it’s bullshit.

1.) I’ll just P without the MO!

No, you won’t. You’ll just P for 4 hours straight until you finally can’t resist touching the bulge in your shorts. Voila, relapse.

2.) I’ll just see what’s new…

There’s nothing new. Nothing. “Oh, look, it’s shot from a slightly different angle.” “Wow, that girl has BROWN hair instead of blonde!” “Wow, that guy’s dick is big!”

There is literally NOTHING new. Nothing worth any of your time.

3.) But I need to jerk off to get to sleep!

No, you need to exercise, stop drinking coffee after 2pm, and maybe take a sleeping aid or drink some chamomile tea. There are a lot of different ways you can get yourself tired.

4.) Hey, I’ve been on a long streak lately. One look/MO session can’t really set me back all that far, can it?

Yes, it can. First off, there’s the chaser effect, which will make it a hell of a lot harder to get back on track. Second, you know for a fact that you’re going to feel like shit the whole rest of the day, at least. Third, if you start the cycle of self-hatred again after you realize that you broke your long streak, you’re likely going to binge. Hard.

And honestly, binging is the only real thing that will truly require you to COMPLETELY start all over again, from square one.

5.) The urge is just too much!

Cold showers. The more you hate the cold water, the faster that urge will disappear. Stand under some truly COLD water for maybe 30 seconds, and your urges will be gone. Feeling cold for a little bit and then feeling great for hours is a lot better than feeling hot for a little bit and feeling like shit for hours. Take your pick.

6.) My goal is NoFap, not NoPorn!

You are a porn addict. You masturbate TO porn. That’s like an alcoholic saying “My goal is to not get drunk, not to not drink at all! I can just drink a can…”

Not everyone who does porn is a porn addict. You are. If you want to stop PMO, you have to get rid of the P first. You don’t overcome a porn addiction by looking at porn.

7.) I just need to get it out of my system…

The only thing you’ll be getting out of your system is your sense of productivity, confidence, energy, and focus.

8.) I’m such a loser. Who even cares?

Right now, your brain is doing whatever it can to get you to come crawling back for your fix. “Hating yourself” is literally just an excuse to keep doing porn. You don’t even realize you’re doing it, but subconsciously, you’ll tell yourself just about ANYTHING if it will get you to watch some more porn.

Basically, your brain is throwing a tantrum so it can get what it craves. It’s like a spoiled little child who’s used to getting whatever it wants right away. Good parents say no to their kids and ignore the tantrums. Bad parents give into those kids’ demands, and those kids grow up to be spoiled little shits with inflated senses of entitlement.

Show your brain who’s boss.

9.) I just want to make sure my dick works!

Your dick works.

10.) I’ll start beginning next week!"

Overweight person: “I’ll start working out on January 1st for my New Year’s Resolution!”

We all know how that turns out.

No, you’ll start now. You’ve been putting things off for much of your life, and a lot of that can be attributed to you lack of motivation thanks to porn.

11.) I’ll just start off slow and maybe masturbate only ____ times a month/week/day…

Alcoholic: “I’ll just start off slow and maybe get drunk ____ times a month/week/day…”

Sounds like bullshit, doesn’t it? That doesn’t mean that relapsing twice in one month vs. twice in one week isn’t progress, but if you consciously set out to do porn sometimes, you’ll NEVER get rid of your addiction.12.) I want to see how much bigger my orgasm is now that I’ve waited ____ days!

Yeah, your orgasm will be bigger. So will your crash down to earth afterwards when you realize that you blew your streak and that you’re all alone with nothing but a screen in front of you depicting a man/woman/cartoon character/hentai/whateveryou’reinto who will never meet you and will never even know your name to keep you company.

13.) I’ve reached my goal of ____ days! I’m cured! I can watch porn without becoming addicted, now, right?

If you’re excited about the fact that you can “watch porn now” because you’re “cured”, then you aren’t cured. You’re still addicted. Keep at it.

Well, that’s about all I can think of.

Remember that you have an addiction, but your addiction is not who you are. You already have more control over yourself than you think.

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I have faced it in 2018 April. I fell into the trap again. It is 100% true.

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Now I redirected a strong urge along with headache ! I never was able to redirect such strong urge.
No cold water shower ! No running !

It’s through something like meditation !

Thank u God !

:sweat_smile::innocent:

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Awesome bro. Keep it up. Keep up the grind

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