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@xevo Glad reading your views. It’s helpful for each one of us.
Do you guys have any advice for constantly dwelling unwanted sexual thoughts? Everyone.

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@anon30406793 Bro, I have great 2 inspirational and motivational songs for you. Do read its lyrics carefully:

  1. The Script- Hall Of Fame
  1. Legends Never Die
  1. Must hear quote my “Madara Uchiha”

@anon30406793
Hey bro, I hope you are doing fine. We all have that bad times, sad times, angry times, and depressed times in our life. It happens randomly and we can’t do anything. Life hits anyone randomly.

But always remember bro, we have 2 options.

  1. Get up, accept the challenge and make a comeback.
  2. Sit back and let the defeat crush even more.

I don’t know how your condition is now but always remember there is hope. When 1 door doesn’t open for you the next door will open up for you.

There is a quote from Batman and it is said by Alfred Pennyworth.
Alfred Pennyworth: Why do we fall, sir? So that we can learn to pick ourselves up.
Bruce Wayne: You still haven’t given up on me?

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Bro you have to be too much carefull ciz your mind will convince you to rely on the ■■■■ blocker making it easy to just off the blocker and fap

Remeber you got will power which should be stronger than the ■■■■ blocker
Its helpful though

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I always remember doing that. Used blocker x last 2 months ago. Then stopped using it and its been 2 months since I used it.

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@BlackMagic123 Wow bro you changed your profile pic!
Now that’s new :smile:

I think interacting with people helps. Every time I want to give up I talk to people first whether here on the phone or in real life.
That’s the easiest and helpful thing to do if you’re being lazy on good habits.

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His old picture was really good. The cat one.

Yea I agree with that. Everybody have their own choices.

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To be honest I liked it more too but it’s on him to decide I guess

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wow someone noticed😂

bro that pfp was old like you can even @Binocular that I haven’t changed pfp in ages :joy:

I will change it to some pfp similar to my previous one if I find one or get one

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You fantasized her!?

20characters!!

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I will tell you in personal message

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It is absolutely possible to heal from depression, no matter at what stage it is at, however you would ALWAYS need to be on guard as to the illness, as once you have suffered from depression it can come back in my experience.

We must ask, however what does it mean to “truly heal” Some would say that not feeling down, eating healthy and exercising may be signs that one is certainly healing.

I think the honest answer will come from within, inside your mind and heart, if you are at peace with your life and living your best life, then absolutely I believe you are “healed”

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Holy Molly bro. This is some top class information. In glad I pinged you all. :ok_hand::ok_hand::ok_hand::ok_hand:

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Credit goes to you for being supportive, you decided to tag people here to help him out and because of it I believe many people will also going to learn a thing or two. So ya well done bro :clap:

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:smiling_face_with_tear::smiling_face_with_tear::sneezing_face: thank you. I created it because I saw him getting very sad and depressed about this. Also he messaged me personally and I am.not much of a advisor. So I thought why not let’s make an topic for him so he can get tips from many people and he can express freely here.

Its better to talk rather than keeping it to yourself.

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Yes, I can turn off the porn blocker. But it help you to avoid adult content. And gives you a reminder.
If porn blocker gives you a motivation that’s works.
For example when I relapsed I always could shut down my blocker. But I think porn blockers I useful. I cannot explain why

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I even use it its true and helpful
But just be careful

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This has been my ringtone for over a year now

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Hey @anon30406793 PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS TAKE YOUR TIME AND WHEN YOU CAN READ IT :+1:.

Don’t leave, you can always do the way you want to do the challenge. On no-fap I began to have problems and a lot of thoughts almost everyday telling me Give up and delete your account. eventuallly many times I log out from this app and got back for more than 10 times.

Since then I have changed a lot of things grew into the point I was obsessive with energy drinks, and felt depressive wanting to end it all. Leaving myself in pain when I eat so much food and junk food just to be happy.

I am fat and never wanted to be. I have never had a real girlfriend who I can hug. I am always single, looking for jobs has been so hard that it’s been months and I’m unnemployed. I play games everyday, I drink energy drinks to relax my mind but because of how I eat I get sick with headaches, heart-burn, stomach ache, nausea and vomiting and it’s been bad the reason I had to do moderation.

My life haven’t been easy me and my family always have problems between apartments they are so expensive, we are poor and between average. Our rent is 2000$. For only 2 rooms. My mom works hard for all of us and my family. My stepdad always gets into arguments with her. I fear I might live on the streets and it’s so expensive we got to look for 1 room.

Biden is the reason I have a bad life. Math is so hard I can’t get to tutoring or study or even do it my own I just cheat. Whenever I see 2 girls holding hands I always feel low because of how sinners have it better than me. P*** and fap has always been something that made me happy on everyday life but, I just can’t stop it.

Whenever I do math I just get the answers online while I fail exams and my teacher tells me to get help I can’t. My family don’t know english and the mathematics they make here. Whenever I could tell my brother to help me I don’t because he gets mad over anything. Younger than me he has a girlfriend, and in real life. I always fear the worst and I hate my life, but one thing that keeps me standing is my religion im catholic and god jesus know my pain and will help me.

I can’t give up, I have a long life to live. I gotta make my dream come true. I gotta keep fighting and go slowly through slowly so I can make it. I can do it. I won’t give up on no-fap I will fight and forget this. Even if it takes years I got to fight.

So remember this: Don’t give up because of a fail, just keep on going and take those failures as a way to make you stronger. However don’t give up. You can do anything you put your mind to do except death. Good luck :white_check_mark::muscle:.

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