Basically, I searched a topic related to my exams and I got back to a shitty cam side. I laughed and immediately closed the site. Thank God for saving me out. Also i searched some NoFap accountability groups and got some kind of triggering ads. I immediately closed into the site and started creating this thread.
This shows the highly free addictive side of internet. What if a kid is searching all of this just as a motive to learn and went down to a site like this. It’s our responsibility to teach the upcoming generation all the pros and cons of this.
I don’t have a certain addiction to all of this. First of all , i didn’t do doom scrolling on YouTube. I usually search what I want to learn. Also i didn’t used Insta from the past 100 Days.
Thanks for the advice it helped. I started cutting out tv shows.
Don’t take it negatively brother, I was not talking about you specifically, but hinting it as a reply to something you’re worried about:
It was to a person suffering from these constant external and non-deliberate triggers, much similar to what you experienced and are worried about younger people experiencing it. Its everywhere and with time it will only increase because its an easy way to earn money.
Not just internet
World in general is highly sexualized
Especially people’s mindset
There is so much in the world to explore learn and enjoy
Still human beings are obsessed with sex
You made a good point talking about this I was actually thinking about this few days ago that there are so much things you can do in this world but humans are so obsessed with sex.
I think that’s why internet is suggesting these type of adds to hook people around their websites. They know pretty well what this generation wants and what to sell them.
Its understandable that human beings want to enjoy and have fun in life
There are 1 million + things in this world to enjoy and have fun
Human beings are just obsessed with 1 out of 1 million
That 1 is sex
Nothing against sex though
We exist in this world because of sex
But I am just against obsessing with sex
Thats just extremely stupid and uncivilized
Even while scolding someone out of anger, human beings use words associated with sex or sex organs in the male or female’s body or an act of sex
Sex always exists in some form or other in the minds of human beings since times immemorial
This obsession and madness with sex among human beings is something I can’t understand after even attempting to understand
What makes sex the centre of human thinking ? So much so that it has to be brought into everything and every thoughts of the brain
Note : When I say humans, myself included in it
So i am questioning my madness too and not taking a moral high ground to preach like a saint
My history teacher once said, all of the evils in this world ever done were committed for three purposes.
The three purposes are wealth, women and wine.
Man is obsessed with these three things and he can go to any bounds to achieve them.
And as you can see woman is at the center among these three things.
Though I agree with the context used, However the words used objectify women
Women are not objects
The thought your history teacher has is a highly conservative and outdated thought based on societal constructs
Thoughts like woman is the reason for man’s crimes will only lead to more stigmas, dogmas, and weaken the idea of equal rights to women, education, employment, right to dress as per their choice, right to work freely, right to live as they wish etc
The problem is with human beings mindset in general be it male or female
Not with any gender
Human beings in general are perverts
That includes females too
Who decides one is right and one is wrong?
No one is right in this world
No one is wrong either
I do not believe I am right nor do I believe I am wrong
I am just trying to seek the truth with the data experience I am exposed to
We all are somewhere in the middle trying to find what’s right and what’s wrong with subjective perceptions of truth and limited but diverse exposures we have
Our perceptions are subjective because our experiences are different, we are taught different, we see different things, we get to hear different things etc
The degree of perceptions will vary accordingly from person to person
? So much so that it has to be brought into everything and every thoughts of the brain