Do you still think I’m the emotional one here?
I think in a manner I actually did. Again, do you think I’m the emotional one here?
Also I’d recommend you to read this.
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Damn
Aren’t those people in his college in same age group as him?
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Okay calm down guys. Calm down.
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Bro you want my response to that guy?
Ask him about his current streak.
And where did I acted arrogant? I have asked for help from my bros irrespective of their streaks.
A random guy’s opinion don’t matter to me. And his reason is bizarre. Tf is a random post to distract others?
The veterans aka @The_Ambitious_One @The_integrous_one @debellator @Binocular know what kind of person I am.
I don’t like to indulge in unnecessary conflicts.
I can go to lengths to avoid conflicts. But if I enter into one, I make sure I end it myself.
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I understand your views. Just chill bro. We all are friends in this forum.
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Okay I’m done here. I don’t want to have conflicts on this forum because this isn’t Instagram or twitter or discord. This is a self improvement forum and I consider it to be a sacred space. So bye.
Not interested.
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@Nep_12 @_TIGER let’s not spoil his dairy. Come to my Dms.
There’s no meaning in online fights and I know you two are mature enough to understand.
I will not become small by apologising if my words hurted someone’s sentiments or something.
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Ok long arse para guy
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I am late for response but I’ll suggest studying in some library near hostel and go to the hostel only for sleeping.
Other suggestion will be to take a single room in some PG nearby your college.You can choose any based on your convenience.
Also before leavning hostel do file a complaint in hostel management or better college management (dean academics preferably) under Anti ragging act and specifically mention who has been involved in ragging you.
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Gotta summon big guns to solve this conflict, @GOVIND-19 check what is going on here
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Thank you for the insight guys!
I can handle ragging.
I decided not to leave my hostel and try to find other ways .
Im emotionally very unstable , i grew up seeing my perents fighting and yelling at each other frequently maybe that could also be a factor that made. I never said that but most of the time i am feeling anxious. I used pmo to escape everything.
Now im in a stage that my mind reminds me of my past failures and I don’t even try to better myself. I am constantly feeling inferior to everyone around me.
When im on nofap i feel better about myself but those feelings still remain.
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Can anyone help me?
I am always afraid of failure.
I am unable to accept failures and thats why im always thinking negatively about everything.
To be honest 2024 has been the worst year of my life till now, i never thought it would be…
Last 20 i have been studying all day , utilizing every second but while revising im not able to remember things properly. But today out of stress i relapsed and feel very low.
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Hmmmm, have you been taking proper sleep? You won’t be able to remember things well if you don’t sleep well. And everyone does forget things, I don’t think anyone is genuis enough to remember everything in one go (remove a select few who are actually genuis). Don’t stress yourself. I also recommend frequent journaling because I’ve seen you do good when you journal here on a regular basis and keep a check on yourself.
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Bro too much stress is devastating, it will affect your performance and also lead to relapse. Try your best and then leave the results to the Divine.
Hope this helps
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Thanks bro… i will keep trying to push through.
Its just a bad year not a bad life . It will pass
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Thanks buddy… All i can do is keep working. And keep believing in myself
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Failure is not the enemy. It is REMAINING a failure that is the problem. Everyone who ever accomplished anything great was once a failure. But through learning and practising getting better everyday we can produce incredible results.
When we were learning to walk as very young children, we would fall down dozens of times a day. The average toddler falls down 17 times an hour. But we never quit. We kept trying and pushing because deep down we felt that it was possible for us to achieve this new goal of walking. We could see that our parents had legs like us and they moved around with ease, so why couldn’t we do the same thing?
Don’t be afraid to fail. It’s how we all grow. Rather, be deathly afraid of remaining the same. Of letting another year pass you by and you’re in the same place. A year from now, it won’t be your failures that you regret. It will be the things you didn’t do, what you didn’t try or attempt, the moments you weren’t fully living. To worry is to live in a future that may never happen. Stay in the present moment. Ask yourself what you can do today that will improve your situation in your studies, in your health, in your finances, in your relationships and so on, and focus on that. You are already changing the outcome of that future you were worrying about by doing so.
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Why are you afraid of failure? When you get answer to this question, you need to be conscious with your mind and efforts.
It’s only when you look for some kind of escape that you don’t fully put efforts for what you want.
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