Hello, im newbie here. I just found this apps and community and believe I has serious problem. I watch ■■■■ and masturbate since 13yo and now I am 39yo. Being married 5 years and got problem to sustain my erection during sex and effected my relationship with my wife. To have sex, I need taking blue pills but it’s not 100% guarantee and usually my penis will soften gradually during intercourse…
So after found this apps and reading about PIED, I think I know about the source of my problem which is addiction to the ■■■■. Now I had stop watching and masturbation to the ■■■■ about one week, but there are some question regarding this.
If my wife masturbate for me, is it will relapse my journey or I can continue the counter as long I don’t masturbate with ■■■■?
After a week, now I can have orgasm from my wife even it just only masturbation (I still not confidence to doing normal sex without pills) Before this I can’t keep erection with my wife unless using the pills. But my erection can stand hard for one hour by watching ■■■■.
Thank you for the any answer, and sorry if this keep been questioning. I am newbie here and hope I can win this journey to completely stop watching ■■■■ and has great relationship (and sex) with my wife. Thank you.
Only masturbate to your wife and if you can decrease it. Only do it if she wants you too. Now a relapse it will depend if your going to be everytime masturbating to your wife then it’s a relapse but from time to time it would not be cause having a wife is different than some girls doing weird stuff online.
Have this strong though: The Strongest thought that can get you over is why do i need to watch people doing weird stuff when i have a wife that nonesense is for lonely people i ain’t lonely so why do i still watch this.
Most important thought: I only love my wife no one else.
Now sex is alright but only do it with your wife if you go looking for other girls or is a cheater this will not be great of help.
Try to avoid anything pornography or sex unless it’s your wife.
Now tell me in 24 days that you have 24 days without fapping since my girlfriend came into my life I has passed over my max day 16 and im now on day 24 going strong and with this strong mind.
