Bro let’s fight one more time. Because fighters never quit .
Winners never quit and losers never try.
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thanks man. I actually felt something similar in my dreamy/sleepy state. There was this feeling causing me to drift away in depression and addiction but I snapped out of it using my anger. I still have the fight within me. I’m not quitting just yet.
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Sometimes I feel like we are stucked in an endless loop ,which has no end.
I relapse , Regrets , Starts again, Manage to go few days , And then again Relapse !
But the thing is we always Start again , Because we have to fight till we win over this problem.
It definitely have a solution, All we need is to find it by ourself which no one can tell us bcoz everyone’s situation is different.
It will take time , But we will surely get out of this.
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this time I really hope so 
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I exercised after a long time. My muscle memory is intact but strength of the body is totally gone.
But it felt good after that.
A scary thing is that my dad says he’s found a bride for me. I was like damn this isn’t what how my life is supposed to go. But in the end it’s my choice to take this up. They just found a girl for me.
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Tf You are just 24 yet bro. Tell your parents atleast let me make something of my life before getting married and maybe they said it so that you’ll realise this 
Parents have many secret tricks down their sleeves.
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I said this plus “I’ll be running away somewhere alone”. They joked that she’ll be running behind me and find me(like in the movies). I mean my dad will be happy if I find a girl of my choice (with reasonable expectations of course) but dude I don’t think I wanna marry for my entire lifetime. I’m so cool with being alone with rest of my life now and dying a virgin too. But yeah it scared me shitless not gonna lie
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Damn
Yeah I am also cool with it but I am not against marriage atleast yet.
My uncle told me that I am about to get a job and since I’ll be turning 25 they are gonna marry me afterwards 
, I didn’t get scared, I took it as a joke, I am not getting married atleast until I am 27-28 and feeling well settled.
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We need some time to breathe free before being bound to a woman for lifetime
Whenever I remember that marriage is for lifetime…I feel soo good as a bachelor then 
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Shi me, yhan apne upar control nhi hai abhi poori trh doosron ko kya sambhaloonga .
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I have a goal of atleast completing 1000 days on no fap before getting married, I really pray I would be able to achieve that
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I wish to go for 12 years lol. Then your accumulated ojas will give you the divine insight. Here I can barely do 3 days now.
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Dang sounds like prison. Also the false accusations of 498A are increasing day by day. Who wants to marry? I’ve been following the works of a woman who fights for men’s rights. She gets many messages from men and I saw cases like there was a marriage which lasted only for 24 days and then he’s fighting for 8 years now. I can’t trust anybody these days.
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Yup that I know, but that’s unrealistic now , that’s why 1000 days is good enough.
In last one month my highest is 11 days 
, after I broke my 100+ days streak this year again I lost control, building good mindset again now.
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Exactly
Same here bro…
I want to get that milestone before moving on to the next stage…
I have heard before that 7 or 9 years are needed for Ojas prapti…
I became excited and started NoFap 5-6 years ago…
Before every relapse it was the same thing…I have time…I have time…
Dekhte dekhte…5 years passed by…and it was last year I finally got a breakthrough…
Ab filal 3 years ka aim hai…ofcourse NoFap for life…but for semen retention…I am not gonna think about it, what would happen after 3 years…tab socha jayega
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Here I didn’t even know any of that until after I joined the forum, I just started no fap in 2020 because I felt it was interfering with my studies, and it still is 
, 2 whole years and still I keep performing the same stupidity.
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Same thinking . 19 saal ka tha jab socha tha. 8-9 saal to kr sakta hu before marriage. Ab 4 saal beet gye .
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After I don’t know it’s been more than 2 months, I finally had a filling meal. Constant stress would make me not eat anything at all. Today I did.
Aamras was the best 
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It is really good and taste good along having dinner.
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https://1lib.in/g/Viktor%20E%20Frankl
It is a very small book (or a very big essay)
Name of the book is “man’s search for meaning”
If anyone is struggling with this like me
I’d say give this book a try. It’s not very big.
Also my special thanks to @Dari for being with me there as always. This debt probably can never be paid.
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