Need guidance for life

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that was the mistake i did few months ago, small steps add up to big results. you are in a procastination cycle you will get out of it by taking small steps

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Thanks bro. I know it’s bad but still I cannot stop, that’s the sad part of it

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Small steps equals to big sucess but you have to wait for it.

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I dont know who you are. But i know every single one is made special. Go for it.

Question) are you stronger or your failure?

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Now feeling like failure :joy: … tomorrow or after a week I m stronger…later that it’s like a boomerang :joy:…dont think I m drunk but really not.
Faith is detoriated a lot

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Life itself is a boomerang.

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see, if you take big step and at the end of the day you werent able to do anything then how can it help you? everything takes time brother whether it be recovery from porn or getting out of procastination

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I understand bro. I stop big expectations and start to built from small.

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right btw i was saying to @StealthChopperinbond

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I remember you said in my diary few weeks before but I was not taken it seriously that time. Now realized.

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Yes, i am also saying that to.

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Look bro, I said don’t expect “anything”. Because thats the way real life works. It does not have marking scheme like 1, 10, 100 etc… In life either you get all of it or you don’t get anything. Probably that won’t pay for you at that time, but most probably in near future, that knowledge will help you in overcoming other addictions.
And I know bro, the kind of addicting days you are talking about. I have spent whole nights playing porn games on my phone and jacking off, I remember not sleeping for 3-4 days in this year alone despite going to bed before 8 PM , because I was spending entire nights playing porn games, watching porn videos, see nude photos and videos of different female celebrities, trying dating apps without success, etc etc… And I can tell you that in this area, all the helo that you need is present there inside you. All you have to do is to let your mind get back into its senses. If you really feel the urge to go away from everything, give your phone to your parents or anyone else and tell them that they don 't give you your mobile on that day no matter what. Gradually, your will power will increase, your focus will grow and you’ll be able to put some effort in good things too.

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Okay bro I understand… Thanks.

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