So guys first all hello everyone. I have been on this app for long tym. It motivates me encourages me but my downfall keeps on coming continuosly. It might sound weird but yes 7 days are also hard for me. Everytime or the other I reach max to 5 days or 4 and the it’s finished. These thoughts abt pmo fantasies and all that stuff in the head it doesn’t go away right away. But a start is needed. I mean a great start. I start but I accept my lose before the beginning of the race. This is my first diary . I felt I need to communicate . There is a need. Something that you would do daily to beat the bad routine. And this is perfect
This is my first day. I’m full on encouraged motivated to reach my 7 days. I even don’t care If I keep on thinking abt these 7 days all tym. The thing is it’s a goal for me . If it’s a fight I have no prob in thinking it and most important staying motivated .any suggestions to me plzzz reply I would be really happy
All the best brother, 7 days is pretty easy if you keep visiting this forum whenever you feel like giving up!
Hey there, happy to follow your journey to 7 days, and many more to come.
I have found writing the diary on this platform very helpful in my recovery so am sure you will to
So glad to see you have not given up on these challenges we face. While it is a big obstacle to overcome, it can be done!
I will send you some tips and if you need help I will help you on this journey!
With God’s help, you got this!
Yes brother I wil make it easy
Yeh this is gonna help me alot
@Yitzchak oh really thankful to you my friend. O would definitely see those tips
so to start the with I have a girlfriend and right now we do meet frequently due to the pandemic . I must tell you my each and every relapse is late-night. We have night talks. Somedays we may fight while other days everything’s fine and we go happily. I don’t know why my mind after putting down the call just thinks abt relapsing or porn( my fantasies). I don’t want to do that thing after I talked to her
We both are serious with each other. And I don’t wanna lose her never. I beleive our happiness has far more value than the desires of porn. I want those late night talks be happy or sad whatever. But I don’t want to vanish away that emotion with fapping.
I wanted to share all this bcoz I want to become a better person for her. I want ur views on this. I would be really happy to know.
Going to study now first
And then in the evening going to gym and for running.
My day goes really good I keep myself busy. At night is what is the most important part. I need to replace my relaxation with sleeping not with fapping.
First day completed with high spirits. I’m feeling so confident that I’m gonna achieve my goal mark of 7 days. And I’m loving this journey. Communicating with u people sharing my viewsit keeps me motivated.
How did it go today?
It was really great my friend. It was my friends bday so i kept busy . Right now it’s evening I’m enjoying with my family. What abt you bro. What is ur sharing code let me add u
Guys it’s my 2nd day full of energy. No urges were there at night. It was a feeling like for instance even if I thought something steamy by chance it did not made me relapse. It was like I was not in a mood to relapse no matter what I think. But definitely I would also vanish these thoughts away. So that I become so firm. I’m damn sure I will reach 7 days.
Bro, love it!
Keep up the motivation and dont let life get you down. There Will be highs and lows.
Important thing is to take one day at a time.
Yeah bro. It’s my 3rd day today. I’m going so consistently. I feel great. These 7 days are like a kick start to my journey and I want these days badly to be completed clean. I want to break my own boundaries.i want to feel that sense of happiness which I have never felt.
I see that the mindset is definitely there for a Much longer streak then 7 days!