My girlfriend and I really want hard mode until marriage, sometime next year when we can get immigration worked out. Right now we are LDR.
We really love each other and have a very intimate bond with each other. We’re also both really sexy and have a predisposition to giving in to our lusts. So often times we can end up getting naked on the camera and then we fall into masturbation with each other.
We don’t want to do this anymore… We want to save sex for marriage alone. We need help and motivation and ways to say no when the urge hits us out of no where while we are talking.
At least I don’t view porn anymore (thank the Lord) but now we’ve become porn for each other D: we don’t want that!!! We’re more than capable of connecting without sexuality, with words and kind gestures and games and gifts, but it’s so hard to say no to each other when our hormones begin to rage.
Idk when she’ll download the app. She says its hard to download things on data where she is (which will not be disclosed) but she said she will join us soon.
Thank you in advance for giving us helpful hints.