Brother, youâre an inspiration to me when I was in my 1st week.
So sorry to hear this
And I want to ask you that what went wrong? What mistake did you do?
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Whatâs up people,
Day 18 - 26 check in 
Been busy but also fairly easy, Iâve stopped daily check ins as Iâm trying to wire my brain to simply say no and move on.
I simply just donât pmo anymore.
Will see how it goes but will check in from time to time.
Hope you guys have been progressing too
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Ohh⊠So Iâm guessing you were struggling with urges and you saw some trigger content and you couldnât control your self. right?
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Check in 
Streak: Day 5
@ali4th, stand up borther and come with me, we are claiming the top once again, but this time victoriously!
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Actually it was an extremely awful and stressful day I was depressed and exhausted and at night I was scrolling through youtube and came across a trigger. Nothing special I could have easily evaded it. But cuz of the unplesant day I had no will to fight. I just gave up too easy. So if anything to note here. When depressed reach to someone close to you and talk to him in person. If youâre alone like me keep your phone away until you feel better and in full control again
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Right with you, once a nofapper, always a nofapper 
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Bro there are lot of people here on this forum said that they relapsed because of depression, stressed, exhausted day and stuff like that, even I also relapsed in past, but I know this thing now that this is normal if youâre doing nofap.
Brain is rewiring⊠Itâs not getting that level of dopamine on daily basis or weekly⊠So brain is healing itself it takes time.
And bro Iâm also facing a lot problem now-a-days like my brain is exploding 
painful. I couldnât do anything right just following my daily discipline. But I know this pain will over soon and I will work hard when my painful days will over. And also if I relapse now there will be no benefit at all like pain will increased not decreased, but our mind play trick here itâll tell us that letâs do fap because itâs too painful.
So just be relaxed and patient everything will be alright.
No more wasting time
Just want to achieve my goals in life and only I can achieve them no one will do this for me.
@ali4th and bro letâs beat this addiction for final.
Letâs say this our last chance in our life.
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@ali4th great to see the group coming around and supporting you. I have no doubts you will come back stronger than ever on your last stand. 
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Checking in Day 37. Keep going kings!
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On this new streak of mine, there is one thing I realized, that I should practice more. When innapropriate thoughts appear, I need to be more instant to say NO. If I leave the thought around and donât chategorically say no as soon as it appears, than it will lurke around for quite some time, and will be able to grow to be a pain on me as a stronger urge. In many cases, it is wise to be calm and think twice before acting, but this is not that case. In this case, the sooner I react with a strong and definite answer, the easier it is to fight off the temptation.
Previously it was not like this. Thoughts appeared differently. Maybe time will make it like that again and I will grow to be able close out temptations complately.
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Hey ! @ali4th , i canât tell how much u motivated me to keep on this streakâŠhearing abt ur relpase hits me ! âŠstay strong u reached very high ⊠A little little savings give us a huge benifit at last⊠donât regret brotherâŠtake this as ur savings and thus will leads u to ur tremendous streakâŠin future 
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Day 46 cccheck in 
feeling calm like a mountain 
understanding the life way of living better than ever
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Day 32 .
A busy week for me so canât get the time. Hope you guys are also doing good. Keep fighting brothers. 
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Ikr⊠it feels both great and sad at the same time.
Its great to have all this support. Im actually wondering what did I do to deserve all this.
And it feels bad to see how many people looked up to me and I failed them
I have one request from you bro @Keats
Im still proceeding with my habit streak and I want to keep it going it helps me alot with nofap. So May I ask that once I gain membership again I dont have to start it all over ?
Thanks again everyone for your support. Im ready to move on and get back to where I was and more.
Remember brothers that I look up to you now.
Stay strong and keep inspiring
@Duran @GuruFTW @alidaniyal @Goten @wall-e @HealingSpade @VARAD @Sadus13
Cheers
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Sorry if I post too much today, but I finally had time to think through things that happened.
So I was thinking about the nature of our fight which basically the same as the fight of life. In my previous post I said, I need to practice to be more instant to decline the temptations. I might have been wrong with this. The concept sounds good but might be a mistake overall. Iâm still learning from my previous streak. Now that I was thinking about it, I came to the realisation, that I did not declined the urges or temptations as they appeared. They basically barelly appeared. Why? Because my whole mentality was different. My mind was turned away from those things. My mentality was separated from porn. I was not thinking about it, nor thinking against it. I separated it from my thoughts and got rid of it as a whole.
This worked.
Why?
Because, this way I didnât started the fight when the urges or temptations appeared, but when I made my dedication to quit. I set my mind to it. So if I want to fight urges, I already lost. I have to fight the mentality that lets me get to the point to have urges. I need to reset my way of thinking and attitude towards porn once again.
So for this, I will read the easypeasy method again too. It helped once tobdet up the correct metality, and I know how I went offroad after 97 days, so I can fix it even further.
The fight is already up. It wonât wait till Iâll be ready or till the enemy appears. It is already on.
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@RaZat for completing over 30 days in your streak you have earned the first insignia:
Well done, sir!
Youâve got a good thing going. Reaching new heights every day. Soon you will have a collection of insignias.
Keep doing what youâre doing, friend.
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Thats fair, @ali4th, since you havenât broken that streak. You can continue checking in with it and when youâre back in the League I will add it back up on the board.
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