Hello nofappers a couple of hours ago i edged and immedtly relized that this was wrong so i stopped a couple of mins after i stopped i got blue balls they started to hurt i couldnt just keep going so i PMO’D, and replased, mostly becouse i ididnt know what to do and didnt know no other ways to stop it so i ended up replasing. I hope you all dont make the same mistake and edge bcoz it will end up by you relpasing. Any tips what to do after edging and getting blue balls?
Srry for my english BTW
After you stop edging and realize you’ve made a mistake then just stop and go do something else. I know the urge is still there but you musn’t give in. Edging isn’t a full relapse. It’s 1/2 of one, but if you say eh screw it i already messed up then you will ruin a perfectly good learning experience. God bless.
Thx for repling but the probelm is that i get blue balls and they start to hurt the reason i replased was becouse of that i couldnt handle the pain i tried to sleep it out but still nothin worked ended up replasing
Yeah just blue balls are okay just wait they will be gone. I treat edging like a relapse so I stop it and think wtf dude. I dont reset the timer but i feel like i relapsed.
I’m curious… What is “blue balls”?
Blue balls if when ur about to have an orgasm then you stop before ejuclation, but it hurts so much if you do this i recommend not doing it at all
I didn’t knew that you boys suffer pain when preventing orgasm. That must be awful
i think that’s not a common thing. i personally never had that.
So it’s not average, I see
I’d say it is average. It isn’t super painful but it’s very uncomfortable. It’s kind of a tight feeling and like there’s pressure coming in on all sides of your testicles, best i can explain it.
My opinion is that edging is fapping, so edging is relapsing. I mean, if you keeping edging, even just a little, you are still on an addicted mindset. It’s just a matter of time until you don’t resist and go all the way, it has happened many times with me, just like happened with our friend @gunsblazing.
“What to do after edging and getting blue balls?”. The answer would be “just stop and wait for the pain to go away”. But a more useful question would be “how I can stop edging? how can I face this recovery with a different mindset?”. This addiction is very serious, we can’t treat it lightly.
Danao thats a great comment thank you ill try my best to stay away from edging.
Thank you to ever who commented that was my first post and got a lot of good annswers and support.
Edging never ends well. The moment you press enter on that porn address you have written, or any other triggering content for that matter, you have lost. In my experience, when I start edging, it always leads to masturbation. The whole mechanism in your mind that you have used times and times again, once started, cannot be stopped. Don’t fall into that trap.
Great comment will try to avoid edging
Blue balls hurt, but the farther goal of NoFap gives me the strength and motivation to keep it in.
I’ve stopped edging completely.
Cause sometimes the semen from the urine may stick to the walls of the urethra and dry up causing a burning sensation. It ruins my sleep but is bearable when I’m awake.
Have you tried cold shower bro?
Dont edge m8. This is not the time for practicing edging. The cure for blue balls is either ejaculating or, working out. Somewhere around day 20 I got a major case of blueballs every morning for a week (because when I sleeping id have a boner) so go work out and work out hard. You have to get the blood out of them balls. Its the best way
This is an old post, but will help me indeed I relapsed yesterday because of a picture I saw and got stuck in my mind… I couldn’t help it and relapsed ):