Lapse literally mean relapse but happening again and again. For a person trying no fap for the first time and if he slipped then its called lapse. But for us its not the first time and hence the name relapse.
But lapse seems to be a more positive word because if you search it , its written temporary failure which is more positive because its atleast temporary.
Personally i like to call slip because unlike lapse slip is a sudden loss of control and we have the power to come back on track asap.
Yeah that’s true. My only concern atm is how to minimise damage during chaser. Because since Aug 2023 I either have a 50+ day streak or in a chaser loop.
Tbh when I broke my 3 digit streak in march this year it wasn’t withdrawal. But the stupid decision of using an app and thinking online girls are sane enough to not show body parts. That’s where shit went south and well, story is long but yeah that’s the thing.