I want a girl to as a friend.....to quit my addictions

very dangerous thing… sometimes I get confused as to who is dominating whom>
is my brain dominating me or vice versa…

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It’s completely true. Hardcore addiction can blast our neurons. I can’t even tell how addicted I was in April and May 2022 in this public forum. Now I am healed 75% or partly. With more practice and knowing how brain works it will be possible.

Anyone suggest him easypeasy book quickly. It will help him.

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I swear brother
Today i had to pass through an area where their are bars, pubs and so on
Where girls wore all sorts of clothes
Wont deny that all were looking hot
Though i didn’t see openly because i said to myself keep ur eyes on the path and only on the route
Nothing else
And thats what i did
Plus i started checking out blazer and suit showroom which had super good offers :sweat_smile:

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There’s one scientist who told about something called neuroplasticity where our neurons get stronger what we feed ourselves with.

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Gentleman founded here

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It will work for ■■■■, masturbation, painting, coding , programming, learning high level mathematics , logic , electrical engineering etc.

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Everything you can think about but the best part is you can weaken it as well although the process is time lengthy

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it’s really hard to not look at … but those who can they really have control over themself…

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It isnt easy but
I donot see for 2 reasons

  1. I dont want to think about any other girl than my girl
  2. I feel if at all those girls ever look into my eyes
    I feel they might sense my listful intentions and might take some bug step against me
    So i donot want either of this

Though previously it would be impossible but with time i was able to convince myself that i dont need to look at others with lustful eyes

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I have female friends but it still doesn’t change anything, because the source of this addiction is from within the self. No outer source will make you be able to overcome the struggle. You need to build the strengh within to overcome. Female friends can make it even harder, because if they are girls with beauty, they will induce your brain to fantasize when you are in a state of temptation. No mather how nice and pure they are, because the dirt is in your mind that ruins theri image in your head.

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Better become the best version of yourself by quitting first, so that a girl find you worthy enough of making her friend.

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Eww, creepy :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:, u r a imo kid go try to make female friend in your school not here u looser​:laughing::laughing::laughing:

Talk with some sense he was asking for some help.
Help him don’t demean him!

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But why he demand a girl here , are there no girl in his area​:rofl::rofl:

Maybe he don’t Allahu Alam but that doesn’t mean that you taunt him for that
Everyone has different problems with addiction
Help but don’t demean

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Cowards shrink from challenges, weaklings flee from them, but warriors wink at them .” “If a lion turned every time small dogs barked at it, it would be the laughing stock of the jungle.” “The louder the dogs bark the less a lion feels threatened.” Don’t try to shrink from challenges and hide behind a woman’s skirt because warriors don’t run and hide from opps

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