I was really trying so hard today but these urges were like super strong and a little cum came out but I didn’t do it on purpose but it just happened.does that mean I relapse?
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Ohh i hear you…ive been in same problem…at which i began to self pleasure till i orgasm, which means yes i did, but im not quiet sure with your story?
I guess if you didnt touch yourself you didnt relapse
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It isn’t a relapse.
You have to learn to avoid this kind of moment. How could you be smarter the next one you have to handle with this intensity of urge?
I think you gotta be honest with yourself and how you feel it is. A relapse isn’t just a one time moment. It also includes things that lead up to it. I believe it’s a process that can be changed to go on stronger. But the guilt you feel, (if you do), is a good sign reason and motivator to keep going
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If you had absolutely no control over it, then no, it isn’t a relapse. We don’t count wet dreams as relapses do we? Did you touch? If it wasn’t on purpose, and you instinctively did it, consider it a minor slipup. Important thing is what you intent to do about it and prevent it from happening again. Don’t worry. It happens to the best of us. Message me or reply with what you’re going to do to correct this mistake.
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I’m trying to avoid getting into the same situation again but I work with the person I have these strong urges for and I did better yesterday to avoid them so I want do it again but I’m just so horny and I want that quick release but I know for sure I didn’t slip up just my body involuntarily acting.
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So, this is about a person then? Maybe you should do something about it? Ask them out? If your goal is to go hard mode, I’d respect that. If I were you, if I’m that attracted to this person, I’d just talk it out, see what happens, ONLY IF they are available, of course. My goal is to go porn and masturbation free forever-not semen retention, so real sex is always on the menu.