This whole journey with this app and community has really helped me. I use to be the guy who would cum twice a day and now l haven’t cummed for 56 days. Unfortunately this journey has slowly made me noticed that l slowly started to edge instead. It’s got bad only during early morning and late nights tho.
Should l reset my counter?
Idk so I’m going to run a poll and the majority wins and l will read what you got to say.
I feel like if l do restart
I be a bit upset
being upset l feel like if I’m going to start new to restart counter to just cum to release tension and start again
But also l could feel good about myself so ldk. I’m sorry to all who supported me as it seems like l taken away one addiction and replaced it with another
3rd option: don’t reset your counter but start tracking the days you go without edging.
As you said, you’ve made serious progress and I think the counter is a helpful reminder of that. If you restart it without being full convinced you have relapsed it will probably lead to a full relapse anyway which would be a much more serious step backwards.
Treat edging as the new enemy to focus on and start building a streak without doing that. Pretty soon you will have left all of it behind.
Resetting would make you very upset and this may lead to binging or relapse.
Try now to change your plan and find a way to continue without edging, or as it is called, without even peeking!
And at the end, counter is just a motivation. We all want to stop forever, so try now to change the strategy to no peek and hopefully you will do it!
I wish this app had 3 counters which you can keep track of.
counter for Porn/peeking
counter for Masterbation aka edging
counter for Orgasm aka cumming
Or whatever but whatever it’s called having more than one be better.
This would motivate people more instead of being afraid of resetting the one and only counter we have now