How to talk to girls

Well, simple question. How to talk to a girl without making them feel like you are overtrying, and also make sure the convo ain’t dull.

Context: girls approach but I don’t know how to talk so I unintentionally rub them off and then I am like damn bruh, wtf is wrong with ya

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Don’t see them as an attraction. They are normal human being like you just different gender. Just treat them in a casual way just like you treat others. Be formal & yourself.

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Let me reiterate the question my bad,
How to talk to girls in a way they don’t become over friendly or think I am their very good friend or in doing so to avoid brushing them off either.

Like talk to them, but also make sure they don’t clinge to you much.

I know that’s a weird question. But it’s what it is.

They approach I wanna talk but Also don’t want to talk at the same time for long. Like a bit of talk.
And when I do so it feels like I am brushing them off. Which I don’t want to but it happens.

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Bro, it’s natural just make sure you properly establish rapport also don’t force it just make sure when you start the convo make it catchy, and interesting don’t sound like an AI or have monotone voice. use different tones and make sure you have a friendly facial expression, approach them with complements and act kindly.

Stay relevant to the topic by using active listening technique.

tagging my bro for more advice (づ ̄3 ̄)づ╭❤️~
@Walnes

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Just answer them as the way you like to although I never talked to any after 8th and even on random group chat whenever I talked they starts abusive language because of me and gets trigger! So in my opinion just talk to them the way you talk normally but while staying in boundaries.

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Yes I understand what you mean above.

Bro’s casually asking his brother for an advice on girls lol. Thank you I really appreciate it. :rofl:

“That’s some flat ■■■ bro, do you cook bacon on it”

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The same way you do it with boys… Approch to them with no expectations (even this very expectation of zero expectations).
Why you want your interactions to be mechanical with them, i mean stop making do’s and don’t or pre-planning your convo let the relation between you all come from immersiveness and spontaneously.
You will know where to sketch the line with the flow…it is something if you preplan it will further ruin it.

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:rofl: You says you don’t want them and want them at the same time then what should I say talking naturally is best at best can say talk if necessary only

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Don’t mind it but I am also looking upto this topic to learn how to talk . :kissing_closed_eyes:

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That’s a good advice.

Bro I went to the place you live damn God bless that place. I saw girls beautiful than in South Delhi NGL.

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You visited to see girls? :rofl: But where I live ?

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Not the way you talked to planred :skull:

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It should be uploaded on the our small world it’s a total meme :joy:

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I visited there coming back from the exam on 31 December. The traffic was terrific.

Not the real reason, but I would say that was a good part of the place. The girls were beautiful, like God had blessed them with natural beauty. For a sec I thought, damn faisal is lucky having surrounded by such faries.

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I think do little more whatever the girl does with u. If she flirts , u flirt more. If she ignores u ignore more… whatever

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Surrounded? No bhai :joy: I don’t even look towards them since I am not handsome just try to pass them as fast as i can

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I bet you would marry a beautiful girl.

Saying this without ill intentions, just an observation since all of the men, even the ones who are not considered physically good looking had beautiful wives.

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It means you definitely would have one do invite everyone in the wedding for RC meet up

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Sure, I will invite everyone.

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@Brahmchary @rajameghanan @Sholt_Tenkerrot @The_integrous_one @Nerbo @nofapstar123 @Prayer_Warrior give us some advice guys

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