people couldn’t wait until June 22nd, so at least here is the introduction.
This book aims to raise awareness of the dangers of pornography and masturbation, in addition to providing practical solutions to this problem that worries many people and has caused them serious problems, especially in recent years after the emergence of the high-speed Internet, which provided a source for pornographic materials. What begins with masturbation motivated by lust, then enjoying it, then eliciting lust with it, then addiction, then addiction to pornography accompanying it. Intimate relationships may even lose the desire to marry.
Matt Fred, the author of the famous book, wrote true stories of men and women who have given up porn for the sake of chastity. He says: I speak at many conferences, and many of my audience are young men in high school or university, and when I talk about the negative impact of pornography on masturbation, many ask who are these Attendees if not masturbating is unhealthy?!
It causes what psychologists such as Freud and Alfred Kinsey have circulated, so some people perceive the sexual drive as a state of boiling and turbulent force that needs a breather, or else it will drift in harmful and harmful ways.
What did the natural sciences tell us about this?
I have done many studies on this topic, and they always come up with really different results.
Then, specifically in 2012, a very useful scientific paper was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.
Dr. Stewart Brody collected research from many studies and found that while ejaculation is associated with positive health effects, not all types of relapses can be considered equal.
The researchers begin to distinguish between the practice of masturbation and vaginal intercourse, there were more consistent results between the different studies, and the researchers found that the frequent practice of masturbation does not have the same type of positive health effects that intercourse.
In many cases, there are no health benefits related to masturbation, and instead, it has negative effects
For example, men who masturbate more are more likely to have prostate abnormalities, are less able to recover from ED, and are prone to depression.
In short, we can say:
1_ There are no documented health problems associated with not masturbating.
2_ Masturbation does not have the same type of health benefits as intercourse.
3_ Masturbation, in certain respects, can be unhealthy.
The fact is that the body has created mechanisms related to the accumulation of hormones in our bodily system, for example, semen can be released involuntarily at night.
So let’s be honest, no man masturbates out of fantasizing about the potential health benefits. Most men masturbate because of sexual fantasies.
There is a short letter written by Lewis the scientist at Oxford University, where he offered some advice about masturbation and said: “The sexual appetite of men is designed to lead him to marriage and to share his unity with his wife, and after that, he has children from her, but masturbation and pornography sends the man again to the prison of the soul there with the women of the bride’s illusions."
So what’s the harm in that?
Lewis says, “The problem with masturbation is that it makes a man prefer a dark prison with imaginary women than to be a husband to a woman he loves and who loves him and be the man he should be.”
The women in porn can always be reached by the viewer at any time without any sacrifices or arrangements depending on the erotic and psychological attractions that the average woman cannot compete with.
And among those brides modified with photoshop and plastic surgery, he is always adored, and in the end, it becomes just a means through which he feeds selfishness and self-love more and more, and because the almost main goal of life is to get out of a dark prison, we are all born into it and it is ourselves, and we must avoid masturbation, Yes, it should be avoided, like all things that should be avoided
The danger is that we fall in love with that prison
Your recovery will be by training your mind, not to become isolated in fantasy or pornography, and also train yourself to be the man you should be: the one who has a real sexual relationship through marriage, an intimate relationship, a tender relationship - Even after a while - not just a solo experience.