You can’t think like that man. I’m exactly where you are. It’s so fucking hard. Do you have any support???
If you think porn is “beautiful scenes”, and that watching other people having intercourse is pleasing, that is where you will always fail, because your motive isnt for you, you dont have a good enough reason to quit, you need to change your prespective, and realize that what you are seeing is filth not compassion, and once you really understand why you HATE it, quitting will be the easiest thing you do, even if you relapse you will realize that you fell in a trap of old habits, and laugh yourself up and know that you will be more aware because you truly hate what your watching.
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Know that you deserve better, no human on the face of this earth, was designed to have sexual urges towards another being, just to kill them away by beating off to a screen and pixels of colour, porn is not real, its you watching a screen, not real humans.
Everyone deserves to give love and be loved, to share their emotions and feelings, and lose their selves in another person, and everytime you masturbate, you are giving up on what motivates you to find that person you deserve.
So stay strong brother and never give up.
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Fuck everything go on nofap on hardmode for 90 days
Ty guys. But this pep talk is more frustrating. I’ve been experimenting for last 5 weeks on nofap. I realized it’s only upto one person himself. If he decides only then he can fight. I don’t have that motivation inside of me. I’m failing repetitively at my exams and goals. However, this time I’ve finally decided to let it all go according to His plan. So I’ll delete this app when I fap any more.
Day 1 ,. I’ll delete tomorrow.
Had lazy day. No will to do anything. Feeling so so so empty.
Day 2, I’ll delete this app tomorrow now.
Oh god… Fukkkkl this Morning wood. It’s getting more and more frustrating now.
Day 3, I’ll delete this app tomorrow now.
Listen to me please! Dude you’re right it is up to you but in the end you can make up your mind over and over but you cannot fight this fight alone. Find someone you can entrust with the knowledge of your addiction. Ask them if daily they’ll text you and hold you accountable. That way you will be afraid to relapse. Man I know how you feel. We all have been where you are! I know you don’t want sympathy. Look, don’t you dare quit. I love the fact you are still here. If you want to message me and talk to me, dude go right ahead. We can help one another. Keep in mind the road is long but what is more important to you? This addiction or your happiness? There’s a saying out there “the best thing about hitting rock bottom is you can only go up” remember that. We are here for you even as complete strangers. But we are all fighting this together. Add me as a companion. My code is e13b3d. Message me please when you need help.
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Day 4 gone. Holding on to the stick, will drown tomorrow now, not today.
Btw thanks for the words man. You really wrote from the heart, I admire that. You are right it’s only upto us whether we choose to give up or not, ultimately it all comes down to just one thing, what we do in the heat of the moment. I was going to give up today, cuz I was feeling bored and had nothing to do except think about a sexually provocative add on TV. Luckily I didn’t cuz I changed my mind to writing the first sentence of this reply.
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Code 0a9f16
Longest 20
Currently 4
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When you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.
Will Rogers
This is perhaps the best solution for your situation, I actually feel bad after seeing you giving yourself a negative motivation by focusing on fighting throughout the day but still believing that you will fail the next day. If you can’t think anything positive about a situation, stop thinking about it.
But if that what floats your boat, let it be… And do keep trying to transform that motivation into something positive.
Respect yourself brother, I am glad that you didn’t leave nofap and this app… Keep fighting…
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I recommend if you want success first thing is get rid of your name. Your not a FAILURE buddy. We all have great potential.
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Ur the 1st person to shoot me in my face 
I’ll change it when I reach 90. Thanks for the reminder brother.
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Day 5 gone. Still having double thoughts.
I’ll delete this app tomorrow.
Today is tough cuz I accidentally watched provocative advertisements. Everything on TV is fukkking sex oriented. SEX SELLS.
Sometimes I think I should go to a cave and come back after 3 months, that’s the only solution for this. Day 6 will not arrive I guess.
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Hey man you didn’t relapse. Trust me the fight is going to get tougher. Just hang in there.
This is my code3b2c5d
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I relapsed today because I felt tired after a stressful day today and all that came to mind was to watch porn and masturbate but afterwards I felt even worse since I saw I had disappointed myself, you guys, my family and friends and even more and saw this is bad enough for me so I reset my counter and am starting afresh but will go more further than I went before so join me as I chase another milestone this is my code 3b2c5d. Bring on the challenge let’s start with one-week streek.
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