I’m kinda struggling to find a girlfriend.
Not that they rejects me or make fun of me.
But I just dont see tham and meet them.
I serve as court security officer and there are Only older women than me (I’m 21) and they are like 30 or 40 y.o. (90%) some of them even older.
So i cant find GF there. There is one girl who is 23y.o and we are very good friends but she has a boyfriend and Im not the person who is capable of destroying others relationship, she neither.
Than there is one women (30y.o) we are VERY good friends, even workout 1x time a week together. But she also has BF and even a Child.
But my point is that my Basic Day looks like this.
7 - 15 or 8 - 16:30 I’m at work
Than i go home, prepare my stuff and go to the GYM. THERE I spend 1hour or 1 and half Hour.
Then i drive Back to home and eat some dinner and then Cook my lunch for another Day. Than I’m cleaning my flat and also preparing some other stuff for another Day at work.
Thats how my Day looks like from Monday till Thursday.
On Friday I work 6:30 - 14:00
So there is plenty of time (i have always weekends free) but i think Only option where to go with my friends and meet Girls is Club, Party and this kinda stuff… You Know drinking, smoking weed. And this kinda life. Which is against my nature. I’M spending a loooot of money at healthy food and supplements (pre workout,protein, bcaa, Glutamine, tribulus and more) and I dont want to DESTROY my workouts, my progress, my gains. By drinking booz. I was never into drinking alcohol, YES sometimes i went with my friends, before Nofap. Now Im like 95% abstainer, Also i dont smoke weed.
So this Clubs and parties is not for me, what would i do there? Without alcohol?
So I’m kinda lost where to meet new Girls.
I work, so I’m no longer at school which is probably the best place to find girlfriend.
But when I was at high school i was crippled by anxiety. I was a sick person a PMO addict.
So i fucked up those years.
I could approach Girls at gym, but some of them
behave very arrogant and lot of them wear a headphones (Metoo) so i dont want to Interrupt there workout Im also very FOCUSED at gym.
But Im totally not afraid of to ask them for together working out.
But I need your help, TIPS for activities where to meet Young Girls. I dont want to use badoo or other bullshit soc. media.
I want to use my confidence, my teachings from NOFAP reboot.