Gimme tips.🥲 (General discussion)

Ok so since I’ve deleted all the social media.ive so many questions :interrobang: there in my mind. Most of my frnds r in diff states so I’m not able to interact with any.
So I’m going to post all my wierd questions :question: that I need answers to here.as far I’ve seen there r so many PPL here with different backgrounds n speciality so I’ll appreciate if you guys can give some tips.
Question 1
How do I become an extrovert n socialise easily wid PPL ???

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Those don’t exactly come in same category. I was able to socialize when I tried but I am still an introvert. Just woke up to a nightmare of not being able to control urge because I was inside the room and not going outside because I am an introvert.

The first step of introduction and all might not be difficult. We call them “ice breakers”

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There is a difference between being introverted and being shy.
If you wanna talk, or wanna ask someone something but couldn’t, it’s Shyness, which is not a good thing. It needs to be fixed, practice will help. I fixed it by going to random people and asking them random but useful information. Like direction, there occupation,etc. most of the time people are polite and excited but some may find it annoying. Where as if you don’t wanna talk to anyone, enjoy your company, but don’t mind taking to others, it’s introversion.

About friends, call them on free time, like Sunday. Or write a plain text.
If possible or wanna try something new write a manual letter, via post. I did this last year, but to a relative, they were excited and suprised, not only because I rarely say something but also for the efforts I put into. It would be a nice experience.

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Reduce ‘texting’ exponentially, go outside to places and talk to them they won’t eat you.
Oftentimes intovertness is a byproduct of PMO and chatting online to the extent they can’t even make eye contact with a real person
Also good to hear that you already quit all social media.

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