I slipped into porn dur to boredom. I was raised as nerd, no social interaction, no female interaction, hobby… started working as software engineer-- again nerd life. So I found porn and it was exciting… My relapses mostly occur when I am bored at work. We have remote work, so when I give myself breaks, my mind (which is feeling need of dopamine after boring coding session) suggests and encourages me to find new categories of porn.
You can find a hobby to fulfill that space. As a Tabletop Roleplaying Games person, I couldn’t recommend RPG enough. It’s a welcome environment for nerd ones, you can find people to play online if there’s no one around that plays, and once you get hooked you can spend a lot time searching and creating content about it. There’s a lot of RPG channels on YouTube, that surely can help when you are bored
My relapses mostly occurs when I am bored at work. We have remote work, so when I give myself breaks, my mind (which is feeling need of dopamine after boring coding session) suggests and encourages me to find new categories of porn.
I will tell you most effective way if you can do it. Buy a dog/cat . Pets always want attention and hence keep us busy as well as it’s fun playing with them.