Im trying to find advice I could give you for pmo success (my “streak” is a few hundred days, I dont count it anymore).
[to samaranjay ]
[ How could I help you… we started pretty much at the same point. And even during our shared pmo fight I didnt persistently win against pmo, I even abandoned fighting it for a while and then returned to escaping from it. So during this time I struggled too. How did I stop the struggle? when did it go away?
I think it went away when I found a purpose. I went to another place to work the whole day and follow something which I actually desire and which I wouldnt regret (blacksmithing/knifemaking). This was the game cahnger for me. I previously “needed” pmo because I was suffering meaninglessness, I needed pmo to distract me from the suffering, I didnt have real life content. Only distractions from the fact that I had an empty existence… When I found a calling I didnt need pmo anymore and the good perspective could finally take shape: ]
The good perspective (everyone read this):
pmo is empty and useless garbage. THis isnt just an opinion, this is the situation. Even after you give in to the urge and orgasm, youre still baited, fata morgana, you still didnt win anything. The witch (pmo) caught you. From this point onward (from the orgasm onward) youre caught and work on destroying yourself, your perception is switched, you think youre suffering when youre not hurting yourself (by masturbating). Absoute trash lies. Absolutely not the case. Escaping this paralysis is the task
FIND PURPOSE: Abandon everything if necessary, there is no more important thing than that. Not you, not your family, not your friends, NOTHING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU FINDING AND ACHIVING YOUR LIFE MISSION.
If you fast forward in your minds eye to being 70, how would you feel about the way you lived at your current age? Youre in a wheelchair or sitting on a bed and staring out the window and your mind goes back to when you were young (the time right now). WHat would you wish to have done? What would you regret? What would ache you? About what would you say "Darn it, if I could live again, I would have chosen MY way, I would have really lived and done “this and this” ". Then do this now. You WILL be 70. You WILL look back on your life. You WILL regret if you dont act.
ACT!
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This is a text screaming at you, but you know in your heart of hearts perfectly well how dire the situation is. Its true, its real, you have potential and youre not using it. USE IT. USE IT. The perfect world, the vision that is meant to be, your DREAM. CAN BE REAL
go after it champion
Take a blank sheet of paper every evening and draw your perfect vision. What would you have? Who would you be with? Who would you be? What kind of person would you be, if you could be anything? YOU CAN BE ANYTHING. Stick to this riutal, every evening, take the sheet of paper and make drawings and write things, all things which you desire your life to be. Hang important drawings up in your room in a place where you can see them.
YOU MATTER! YOUR DESTINY MATTERS!
You going forward makes a real difference for humanity. ACHIEVE