I’ve been doing NoFap for some time, and my addiction has been improving lately. But I need your advice on a tricky situation I’m in now.
So 9 months ago, I got a girlfriend who I genuinely love. She used to be very shy around physical and sexual intimacy, but recently she’s opened up to me and we’ve started to do things we never used to do.
Now don’t get me wrong, this is definitely awesome, and we’re both doing this for the right reasons and are very committed to our relationship. Plus, this has helped her be more confident in everyday life and has improved the quality of our relationship.
The only problem is, each time we make out more or less seriously, I get a crazy chaser effect that sometimes leaves me wasted for a day or 2, and pushes me to relapse (of course this is no excuse). Plus, when I get into high streaks, even thinking of her can really arouse me, especially when I remember some moments we spent together.
So overall, I don’t know how to react to this situation, and hiw to solve this issue. What do you guys think? And do you have any useful experience to share for this topic?
Anyway, thank you for your time and understanding