Changing bad habits easily

I know that for porn, the only way that works is no porn at all. Never again.
But I know that there are a ton of minor little habits which would be nice if I don’t have them. But if I tell my self that I will never do them again (like chewing on my fingernails) I will end up with a huge list of things I mustn’t do ever again. I will feel horrible since never again is a pretty long time :sweat_smile:

What I found out for my self is that there is an easier method to get rid of them.
Every night i define goals or small, easy “challenges” for the next day. Like “tomorrow I will wake up and drink a glass of water” or “tomorrow I won’t watch twitch”.

Once a week I will set one larger goal. This week was “I will keep my phone in the living room when I’m at home and I will use it for less then 30min daily”.

The important part is, that each night I will look back at the day. I feel satisfied when I reached my goal and I see that it’s not torturing to do it like this and my day was better then if I did it the old way. From the bad things during the day I can set a new goal for the next day.

It’s an easy challenge and reward system which helps me to change my bad habits step by step without torturing myself.

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This was something which needed to be said. Now that’s how it should be done. Nofap doesn’t work until we do.

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