Hi guys, so this NNN i watched lots of different types of porn without any relapse during the month, just to test myself and my limits, but now im wondering if it was bad or something.
I was doing it because i was looking for some kind of immunity against those things and i think i got one, its just a little but now i dont feel that many urges when i watch porn.
But it is bad for the nofap purposes?
You are a fool. Yeah, you heard it right. We no fapper here practice it to get over PMO and get back to normal life. There is no such thing as immunity to a substance you’ve been addicted to. An addict is always an Addict. So if you haven’t responded to the Po*n you’ve consumed you might soon or perhaps you got lucky.
There were relapses that people have posted in this very particular community who failed from major streaks because they were testing the immunity lol. Dude the basic thing is God made us have real intercourse and not to jack to pixels. But we messed up our brains and now are trying to rewire. Anyway, I’m sorry I got a little harsh on you but what you did was beyond stupidity and the stunt that was was perhaps without an expert opinion. Welcome to the community.
Wow man thank you really, i needed a strong opinion and you give me what i was looking posting this here, i won’t do that again Honorable gentleman.
@The_monk u failed no nut November , watching porn is a relapse . Now u can count how many times u relapsed.
Porn itself is something we are trying to be away from bro…if u watch it with or without relapse, its same as relapse… its ur addiction that gives you these ideas… Stay away…immunity is something u will achieve as the days go by… By immunity, u mean confidence to tackle urges, and that increases as u tackle urges one by one… Slowly the intensity of urges decreases… Takes time, but it will built in us…
Now, i understand why u wanted to do it… These ideas do get in our head when we are quitting… My brain gave me lots of excuses like this bro, we have all been there… We have to learn to resist them… See, porn is something u want to quit. Watching it doesn’t make sense… Relapse is something that comes after quitting… by trying to overcome them, if u watch porn… Then whats the point of quitting?
Damn… thank you guys i needed this.
Brother remember- to stop being a drunkard, you have to stop drinking, not see how many types of alcohol you can consume without getting drunk.
Although considering watching P as a relapse is an individual goal I don’t think there is a need to reset the counter for the same reason unless someone is watching it regularly. Once in a while accidentally could be sometimes tolerable but if he consider it as practicing nofap. Then he need to reevaluate his goals. Because that person can never be able rewire his brain by consistently feeding po*n to his desires.
@The_monk what day are you at now?
i was at day 30, but i reset it because, you guys are right, i wasn’t rewiring, i was just feeding an addiction without being aware of it.
Careful. Brain will take advantage of this and try to make you relapse. It’s not considered relapse is arguable if you dont see it more often than once in 3 or 4 weeks accidentally. I would suggest not watching at all.
That’s right. Start afresh and don’t fall to chaser effect. I did the same thing- restart because I wasn’t rewiring, but on day 77.
Trust me, you will notice a difference in your streaks.
Alright, this 1st of december i’ll begin my path, i won’t do what i was doing, you are right guys, Immunity? why damn it, im trying to rewire my addicted brain and by watching just for test myself i was just failling my purposes.
that quote you said is perfect for my case
“to stop being a drunkard, you have to stop drinking, not see how many types of alcohol you can consume without getting drunk”.
thanks
Dude no need to reset the counter past 30 days. You can still get serious in practicing no fop without resetting. I’ll tell you why.
Once you reset you enter into a danger zone of chaser effect. This is even worse.Your brain would be tempting you to relapse as you’ve reset the counter. The number of days is a major source of getting the motivation to not beat your meat even though you had a stressful day because if you do it you progress, your sacrifices would turn to zero. Nobody is gonna give an award for the number of days you haven’t fapped. I would advise you to go and set the counter to that of when you masturbated the last time.
But once you’ve abstained from masturbation the benefits you receive might differ from person to person. As you’ve watched a ton of P, you will perhaps not receive the same benefits. Instead of starting, you can delay the benefits. But our major goal is to make nofap a lifestyle. So here’s what you can do, you do not reset the counter right now. But you’ll continue with the same streak until 90 days once you’ve completed a reboot, you decrease the counter to 30days.
Its alright man @The_monk good you made the decision.
The heart js deceitful above all things. The immunity was just another trick your brain was using to view porn. Don’t worry, we all have to fight oversmart brains. Keep fighting!
A futile attempt to prove bullshit is indeed bullshit
I know i was being stupid lol
Haha why man, its just a anime girl eating a pocky