Not masturbating till 12th May. Please keep reminding me this. Enough is enough. Beast, wake up and stand for yourself
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Im curious to see why you said your goal is to masturbate on 12th of may and not ever again?
Because forever is a lie or maybe not possible straight away. I want a good sample space to see where I stand. Plus however silly it may sound, it’s weird that masturbation has been seen by me as a pressure releaser and in past 1 year, I have 95% masturbated when I felt some kind of study stress, career pressure. Since I have end sem exams in first week of May, there’s high probability of masturbating so I want to judge myself during that time. I am pretty sure if I live through that phase, I might as well go on a pretty long streak or might as well go forever as u said. Sorry for long reply tho. I am only sharing these things coz this community is surprisingly very understanding and doesn’t judges anyone wanting to improve.
Forever is the best streak that you must aim for. There is a saying “Change is a direction, not a destination”
Nofap is a lifestyle brother, if you aim for a number of days I am sure you will relapse rather if you made it to that number or not. For an example, if you aim for half the mark on a test to pass, you might not reach it and even if you do, you wouldn’t feel satisfied from the inside cause you didn’t do your best. On the other hand, if you aim higher, result will be far better!
I would like to advice you an advice that will benefit you a lot if you accept it:
“No matter how much your brain tries to justify it, relapsing is never the right choice”
I believe you can do it brother. Do not underestimate your potential. All the best!
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But if we think about forever from start, we will most likely fail. We have to take it step by step, achieve smaller targets till it finally goes away
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Each day is a step dude. If you can go one day, you can go forever. Let me tell you a story:
A wise man who had 1000 day streak on Nofap was asked, how did you do it?
He asked the questioner:" Can you go one day?
He responded:" Of course, but it seems impossible to get to 1000. Even to get to 90"
The man then told him:" If you could go one day, you can go 1000, If you fix your eyes on the top of the mountain, you will miss the little bumps in the ground, and trip over them because you weren’t paying attention to the little obstacles."
“But”, the man said," If you can just get over each little step you have to make along the way, you will be at the top in no time"
Do not focus on the top of the mountain and trip on the little rocks in your way.
Just win over one day at a time.
A good today everyday is the key to go forever. Not by setting limits.
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