@alokdwivedi1994
I relapsed that doesnt mean i didnt do 32 days.
There are other players also who relapsed but i never put their streak to zero.
Its a individual decision to make.
Once a record is set it remains there so that others can break it one day.
Bhai me maanta hu aap apne tarike se soch rhey h but mereko ye lga ki current streak ka hi scoreboard pe likhna h to us wjh se mene zero pe kiya isme chae me bhi hota to me bhi apna current streak k hisab se hi krta set ,isko otherwise mt le bhai because agr hm sb purani streak sb apni apni krngey to isme progress khud ko feel kha se hoga baaki ye mera point of view h baaki jesa tum chaho wesa likh sktey ho
I look for progress in my days counter.
If i do more than 32 then i will update it.
I think to write it zero it breaks my heart. Once a record is set it must be remembered for future reference & motivation.
Thanks.
Good brother everyone has their point of view but aap apna to score dekh logey but according to me scoreboard issliye h ki log apne scores k saath saath sbka score dekh skey wrna scoreborad ki jarurat hi kyu h sb apna apna score lakr likh dengey to isme competition ki lg jaati, h baaki I respect ur point of view it’s ur journey ,only u have the right how u had to deal with that it’s all up to you.
Keep progressing
Thanks
I know we differs in our point of view but its a reboot group… no competition here.
Just we give more respect to the highest streaks thats why we have crowned deepak as the king of basic reboot group. If he relapses it doesnt mean we write off his streak to zero. His six months of streak will be remembered foreever its upto us that we do more days than him and take title of nofap king from him
For competition i have made a separate group called elimination chamber match
You are right bro. @alokdwivedi1994
We should make it as a competition.
Separate section for people who relapsed after giving their best. People with current streaks should be kept in line.
Thanks for the idea.
Perfect bro this is good u have corrected it right
I never disappoint my people.
Bhaut dino se jhujh rha hu urges se ,aaj subha uthne k baad kuch nudes bhi dekh liya me instagram pe uske baad instagram hi hta diya phone se ,ab instagram hataya to youtube bccha tha uspe dekh liya thori der baad apne kmre me chla gya then edging krliya but phir kisi bhai ka suggestion yaad aaya ki kabhi bhi urges aaye to start doing push-ups tb jaake me relapse krne se bchh paya I really do not want to relapse,thats why I m fighting alot with this shitty urges ,jha tk mera manna h urges kbhi gayab nhi hongi aapke mn se aap ko unhe control krna sikhna pdega ,anybody can relapse aur kbhi bhi chahe wo 400 days pe ho ya kittey bhi days pe sb ko relapse ka khatra rehta h but jb wo haar nhi mantey to me kese maan skta hu I will also fight with this ,baaki dekho kbtk tika rehta hu
You are speaking truth. The fear of relapse will always be there whether you have 2 day streak or 400 days streak but one thing is different in both, that is rewiring of brain
When you will be on 400 days streak your brain will be rewired and rewiring stays for long time nomatter if you relapses after 400 days. Though i relapsed after 32 days but some of my rewiring is still left with me. It helps a lot in dealing with everyday tasks. the thing is we cant get comfortable with ■■■■ if we have completed our reboot
the first rule of nofap to never look at ■■■■ should be maintained forever in life. Its like base of our building, when the base is weak the building collapses i mean whenever we took a decision to watch ■■■■ we are making our base weak
We build our streaks on one thing to never look at ■■■■ again and when we cheat this rule we are in big trouble. I am not trying to scare you but you have put yourself in grave situation
May god give you strength to overcome this weakness and rise as a strong soul after this.
Thanks brother I will not watch erotic ,porn etc… things again ,thanks for supporting
I want to be part of this group
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Yours welcome bro.
Update your streak on scoreboard once in a while.
I had a question, I need to browse YouTube quite a bit for study purpose, but end up wasting a lot of time in it and also see triggering thumbnails which are common these days. How do I control these issues because the sexy dance videos etc are giving me a hard time.
First thing browse you tube as guest dont login.
It will give you warning for the contents that are for adult rated .
Or just turn the safety button on …
Go to settings of you tube you will find a safety button turn it on …
I want to join this. How?
You can’t escape from opposite sex. Its everywhere.
You just have to take a decision when such hot videos appear on your screen SHOULD I WATCH IT OR NOT ?
IF YOU SEE IT … YOU LOSE.
IF YOU MOVE ON WITHOUT CLICKING ON IT… YOU WIN.
Make it a habit… this habit will keep you safe for a long time.
Thanks.
Write your name & details in Scoreboard on page no.2
Edit your streak there everyday. Have any issue just message in this group. We shall help you.
@foxer
Congrats for your 61 days.
I want to know about your life from 30 days to 61 days. What has changed. Give some details.
*0-30 was calm. After Day 50 urges was extreme, some how escaped.
*What I realised is when an urge rises, mind will somehow trick to relapse. When ever turned on divert mind at that instant itself, never give a chance to boost the urge.
*Avoid all curiosities regards sex,.,… On internet
*Self awareness increased, kind of more conscious about who I am, what my skills, what I lack
*Earlied I had escapism habits, now I understood my weaknesses.
Some useful resources
*There’s an app life strategy, i started making long term life plans.
*Design my life YouTube channel, it will help
*Beeminder + habitica, helps to build good habits
*Siempo, minimal phone launcher. Helps to limit phone usage
@Foxer 6t5vyc